I've managed to find some great loving friends who are willing to listen to me blather on when I feel the urge. In the past, I would cut first, and then talk about it. I'd never call someone first, because I never thought I deserved their love and support. But then I'd feel shitty afterwords. Most recently, it was really tiny, and I lied to my best friend about it...I haven't had the urge to since then, though. I guess I'm just learning to deal with things better.

Talk talk talk with my friends and family. Helps a lot.

Counseling just made things worse. Counseling sessions only give him more ammo. It's easier for me to live day-to-day by trying to remain low profile.

Feel good talking to my friends and family.

Talking and venting to friends and family have been very helpful.

Talking and emailing friends both near and afar has helped me cope with all these changes.

she keeps a diary and she talks to me and it seems to help her sometimes

it really helps get it all out on the table and out of your head. writing also helps a lot. i have a journal that is almost full already.

Still works

talking to my poor husband

Helps but I feel that I sont want to burden my husband and friends all the time with it. And talking to my mom, I upset her and I dont want to.

helps some

nobody really knows what im goign though at home but they try

TALKED TO FAMILY ABOUT IT.

works