you need loads hehe

working, having patience with people who think mental illness is not serious enough illness for getting help. Plus people who label us crazy-stupid-lasy-delusional-dum-not a person at all.

not enuff

I have read books and talked with my sister who has been through this.

Doesn't work

confused, defeated

sometimes...but if im really stressed i become very distressed

the key to everything

hard work but it pays off.

I'm running out of patience.

Since discovering her cheating, I did not want to touch her at all. THrough advice and prayer, and reading the bible I discovered things about myself and my wife that helped me to realize exactly who I am and who my wife is. No, neither of us is perfect, but giving myself time to come to terms with my life, and my wifes life, and who we are.....helped a great deal. We have begun making love again, and are incorporating small things into the love making to help us feel more alive.

deep breathing, visualization, trying not to get mad to fast alllll help a lot.

Patience is good...

Of course it worked! It's hard to be patient sometimes....I think that it is imperative that one has a support system for when it gets too overwhelming. I'm lucky to have a few people who do help out when needed but of course am always looking for a good sitter!

Patience is a virtue when it comes to parenting. I've certainly got more the second time round!