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I HAVE A COUPLE OF QUESTIONS THAT I NEED SOME ADVICE ON. SOOOO PLEASE HELP???
IS IT BAD IF I MIGHT BE BISEXUAL??
AND WHAT IS MARRIAGE REALLY IS IT JUST A PIECE OF PAPER OR IS IT LIVING TOGETHER AND ETC?? AND IN ORDER TO LIVE WITH SOMEONE ((LIKE MY PRE FIANANCE))) DO I NEED TO BE MARRIED TO THEM OR IS IT OKAY TO ACTUALLY LIVE WITH THEM EVEN THOUGH WE ACT SOOO MUCH LIKE A MARRIED COUPLE?? WE HAVE A BANKING ACCOUNT TOGETHER WE CALL EACH OTHER SEVERAL TIMES A DAY BEFORE WE DO ANYTHING WE CHECK INTO THE OTHER PERSON FOR PERMISSION OR WE TALK TO EACH OTHER ABOUT EVERYTHING.. MY BEST FRIEND SAYS ITS SOOO FUNNY HOW WE SOUND SO MUCH LIKE A MARRIED COUPLE ON THE PHONE.. SO NECESSARILY EVEN THOUGH WE DONT HAVE PAPERWORK ON BEING MARRIED WE ACT SO MUCH LIKE A MARRIED COUPLE THAT ITS WEIRD.. SO WOULD BE OK IF WE MOVED IN WITH EACH OTHER TO BE ABLE TO GET USE TO IT THAN GET MARRIED? ((OFFICIALLY)))
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hey guys i havent been able to write much in a while and it hurts me that i havent. maybe some of you have read what happened to me when i lost winter.. but its hard to try and let go.. my ex friend ree keeps calling me and tormenting me with memories of being prageant and how i wasnt able to keep mine and etc.. she thinks its funny but its not i dont even pick up the phone and she leaves voicemails and etc and i cant block her number or anything because if i could i would.. but its stupid why does she have to do this, not only that but i dont get how can girls be sooo cruel and etc.
my friend tina showed up on my bday with cake and etc and kept reminding me that i have to spoil her for her bday and etc i didnt ask her for anything so why she even bother unless it was just to be able to benefit her or so i would feel like i had to buy her stuff and etc its sick i dont have a job and only one more paycheck coming in for me to survive on for awhile.. i am tired of this and with my pstd acting up its even worse i want to be left alone and let go or not have this stupid shit around me anymore.
not only that but my bf wants me to move in with him how am i going to be able to do this?
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Holley only do what you are comfortable with!
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Is it bad to be bisexual? No. I am attracted to both men and women. I have never had a relationship with a woman but I will not deny that I have entertained the idea. You're either attracted to someone, or you're not. I think it's in the way we're programmed from birth.
As for marriage, that is a personal view entirely. My husband and I got married 3 years ago. We did not live together before hand, but like you (and most soon-to-be-wed couples) we acted much like a married couple then. As the years go by, the definition sort of changes. At first it was lovey-dovey and honeymoonish. We are now so much more comfortable with each other and our communication styles have emerged into something deeper. We may not be as huggy and kissy as we once were, but there's a deeper connection.
We've been through a lot together (death of a very close friend, deployment to Iraq, two miscarriages, living very far away from all friends and family, etc) and as long as you keep growing together and facing challenges together - you in turn appreciate your partner more for how they were there with you through it all.
Marriage is deeper than a piece of paper. You don't need a piece of paper to share this same type of committment. You need to work at it. If a piece of paper (and having the government legally recognize you and your spouse for tax, medical, etc) helps - then by all means, go for it.
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