horsenut's Journal

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Over 10 years late but I did it.

I gave my husband the ultimatum.

You start to bring money into this household or you leave.

We will seperate the finances and you can live somewhere else.

After me saying that his first words back to me were. "Where should I go."

Not,

Oh I love you so much. I am so sorry I have ruined credit.

Lost our house,

not brought money in for over 9 months.

not managing the business properly so there was money to pay us.

Sorry for all the overdraughts, bounced checks.

Using up all your 401K.

Making us live from your credit cards.

So sorry I caused you so much misery.

So sorry I caused you mental anguish.

So sorry I have not hugged you, kissed you, cherished you.

I will from now on make $2,000 a month to pay the bills.

He said none of that.

All the condition was to bring money into the household, not too much to ask I would have thought.

I love that man but he just dosn't think right.

Why dosn't he fight for me.?

"Where should HE GO."?

Sounds like all he was thinking about was him.

It just comfirmed everything.

All my years of struggling with the stand by your man attitude has now come to

why did I not do this years ago.

I have been so dumb.

I need to put on a hard shell so all this stuff going on does not bother me.

God still loves me too.

Hug horsenut

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Comments

I am hear for you. I am so sorry for you and what he has done to you. I understand all you say...I wish I could truly be there and give you a big huge hug. Yes, he is one self-centered man and he needs to go. Where, let him figure that out....Keep that hard shell on and God will guide you. Love and Hugs

LeeAnn
You should print out this journal and give it to him. Wake his sorry butt up! Sorry for all your pain and I hope he comes to his senses.
Please take care and be well.
Peace~

Calamitybb
So sorry for the pain you are in. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love you, Nancy

nancy2
There is never any good thing to say to some one that is having to live throught this, but what I can say is there here at DS, you are loved and cherished, we see and value your heart and are proud to be your friend

TexasMS
Hugs hon I know it is sooo hard to leave a man who was no good!

redsilverfox
I am so sorry that he has made you go through all this. You have to start thinking of you from now on. You have been more then patient all this time. My prayers are with you.. Love You Mary

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