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Journal Entry for September 12, 2007 Mood
Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Very sad this morning for some reason--not depressed but to some extent  feel I let my wife down (not paying enough attention to romantic areas) but realistically she has never met my emotional needs.  I am going to be happier after the divorce for the opportunity to be with someone who can focus on the "we."

 Still very, very angry at her for putting all the blame for the relationship demise on me.

We are not really talking right now after the heated discussion on Monday.  Probably for the best.  She will be out of town this w/e and maybe we'll connect a little  after that.  I have a late therapy appt tonight and Thursdays I have always worked late.

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  1. iadtmom

    Sorry you are having a sad day. Send you a big hug. Hope if will make you smile a litte. HUG


    iadtmom

  2. Joordens

    Of course she would! That is her problem though not yours. Just try to take care of you and the kids. That should be your focus now. Hang in there! ((((((HUGS))))) ~ Michele


    Joordens

  3. ElBenzo

    I feel better already after these wonderful comments!


    ElBenzo

Journal Entry for September 12, 2007 Mood
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Continuing to do well.  Anger, unfortunately, has replaced some of my understanding of my wife's situation but it has really been helpful to get though the day today.  I was extraordinarily unimpressed by her comments and behaviors last night, very clearly placing blame for our relationship issues squarely on me.
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  1. Joordens

    They always do! It makes it easier for them.It is a very selfish thing to do. The anger is a means of self protection try to make it work for you! ~ Michele


    Joordens

Journal Entry for September 10, 2007 Mood
Monday, September 10, 2007

Much better.  Strong and proud of the good husband and father I am!  Taking care of myself, in the gym, never looked better.

 

I prayed this afternoon for a little help.  Not 20 minutes a later a friend of mine, a drug rep, randomly visited my office and we were able to chat a little.  Hows that for divine intervention?

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  1. Joordens

    It works every time! Especially if he was handing out free samples! LOL Just kidding! ~ Michele


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  2. Joordens

    It works every time! Especially if he was handing out free samples! LOL Just kidding! ~ Michele


    Joordens

Past Entries

September 2007
Mood Saturday, 9/08
Mood Friday, 9/07

August 2007
Mood Thursday, 8/23

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