tanjat's Journal

Why do they continue to lie to me and themself and other people? I just dont get it now that the truth has come out why would they not just get it all out.

Last night I asked him if they had told her ex husband who knowes me and my H very well, he said she did and the I asked him what they told her kids so that I could sort of say the same thing in case they ran into each other. He said that she had told the kids the truth and that the kids seemed OK with it.

So today we told my 8 year old who took it like the trooper she is and he did the right thing and told her he loves her and that he will be here for her. Anyway later at school (it was meet the teacher night) I run in to her ex. I say to him what do you think about the s**** that has been going on and he dosent know anything. She told him that he is just staying there for a few nights and that he needs a break from me and that they r just good friends. S the scorned women that I am I asked him if he wanted to  hear the whole story and he asked me to call him and tell him later. So I did.He was not happy cause he knows that my h is not good to his kids, he actually told me he doesnt like them. And also since she didnt tell her ex the truth she didnt tell the kids either because they would tell theire dad.

One of my friends set me up for a date next weekend, I told him I was not ready to date and he said to just go and have fun and there are no strings attached. I dont know if I can have fun already?