1 year later.....
August 21, 2008 10:53am
1 year ago today my whole world came falling down on me, I found out that my H and best friend were having an affair right under my nose ...... …
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tanjat
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About Me
I have 3 children, 8, 2 &3 month old. I was born and raised in germany. I have been married for almost 3 years (been together 6). We just got separated. I love San Antonio, it's my home away from home.I was born and raised in Germany and moved here in 2003 with my Husband who was stationed overseas.
Interests
dancing, I love to read and have fun with my friends
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Journal Entry for June 19, 2008
June 19, 2008 10:00am
My husband had a firecracker accident Friday night; he lost his thumb in the explosion and lost the fingertip on another finger as well as a several …
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Journal Entry for January 27, 2008
January 27, 2008 6:12am
I went to the store last night and I ran into her .....I had not seen her that close in 4 moths....(since we are almost neighbors I do see her from …
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Journal Entry for December 3, 2007
December 3, 2007 9:30pm
I am having a bad night, my H is out of town for work, gone for the first time since it happened and I hate that he is gone ( even though I have …
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Hi ya Hope all is well Sam
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Wow... at least I had the luxury of the OW being a fairly questionable character in the community. You husband and best friend is quite a hit for you to take. That kind of betrayal is epic. I don't think I could put together two words to make a sentence let alone take care of three children. I'll keep you in my prayers and dedications. I'm so sorry you are here with us.
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Are you working on your marriage? What is the current status? Things going well?
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Just read your Journal. D-day was Oct 19th 07 for me. I am coming up on the anniversary, so it is a very difficult week for me. You have been through a lot. I wish you the best. My heart goes out to you. Only we that are betrayed understand how each other feel. I still obsess constantly, although it has improved. The fact that she kept lying after I found out made everything much, much worse. I do not have kids with her, so I plan on leaving. I do have mixed feelings however. One day I want to forgive, the next I want to leave. What to do to get the focus on my decision????
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Close Infidelity
I have been married for 3 years and I found out last night that my H has been cheating on me with my best friend for the past 3 month in my bed and last night he left me for her he is not even showing the least bit of remorse or concerne for my feelings. I am so hurt and the crazy thing is I still want him back. I cant even belive I am saying that...
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
Close Families & Friends Of Addicts
My H is a recovering addict, He has been sober for 3 years now.
Open Accidents
My husband had a firecracker accident Friday night; he lost his thumb in the explosion and lost the fingertip on another finger as well as a several broken bones in his hand. It is his right hand and a pretty devastating injury.
Treatments
- Surgery, Hand Too Soon to Tell
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