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About 8 months ago I found out that my now husband (then he was just a boyfriend) had cheated on me with someone that we had both worked with. And that he needed some time to think about things because he has been unhappy. I agreed to some time apart. While I was away I had found out (by snooping) that he was having an emotional affair with a co-worker. He thought he loved her and was having trouble not having contact with her. They texted and talked all hours of the day and night. And he met up with her several times after work. He would tell me that he was working at a clients house and granted he would do that but he would meet up with her before hand. He swears that it never went any further than kissing and a little touching. I think I am more hurt about this newer affair than I am with the older more sexual affair. Like I said it has been 8 months but I am having a hard time getting past this. I would like suggestions.