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RubyMcC

Female, 28, CA

Member since August 15, 2007
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6 days till i get wireless internet at home.... 6 days and counting!

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About Me
Ruby has grown from a scared young child who lost her mother at the age of 14 to a strong willed young lady. She still reverts to her inner child to express her feelings and just to allow herself to indulge the fantasies of a young girl. She enjoys helping others and finally feels that she has found her calling by helping others on DS get out of abusive relationships.
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What can we do to make Allahs Light Shine forth through the Darkness around us? We must first let is shine in our own true Selves With the Light in the niche of our inmost hearts We can walk with steps both firm and sure: We can humbly visit he confortless And guide their steps. Not we but the light Will guide! But oh! the joy of being found Worthy to bear the Torch, and to say To our brethren: "I too was in Darkness Comfortless, and behold, I have found Comfort and Joy in the Grace Divine!" (Qur'an c. 229)
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- What made me want to become muslim?
  
  July 7, 2008 12:55pm
  
  Well let me first start to give you a little bit of background to the story. When I was younger I had always felt that somehow I was 'less' …
- Monarch of Freedom... want something to symbolize.. my healing..
  
  July 1, 2008 6:02pm
  
  Posted on 07/01/08, 05:57 pm Another member Freddie... just got a tatoo to celebrate and remind her that she will not tolerate abuse any longer. She …
- posted by the queen... valerie that is!
  
  July 1, 2008 4:51pm
  
  Reply #2 - 07/01/08 2:54pm I understand you say that you moved away 10 years ago but you are still calling him your husband. Did you ever …
- MY GRANDFATHERS DEAD
  
  July 1, 2008 3:42am
  
  they are gone...my grandfather.. hes gone.. hes dead.. i didn't know...
  
  i didn't like like i didn't know my mom had been in a …
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Support Groups
- Close Physical & Emotional Abuse
  I have been through numerous toxic relationships because I am still a very codependant person. My abusive exbf left the day before thanksgiving
  Treatments
  
  12 Step Program Too Soon to Tell
  
  Crying Not Working
  
  Definitly not working. I don't deserve this treatment by anyone.
  
  Leave Too Soon to Tell
  
  Just left today. someone just wished my my first day of freedom! that just helped my anxiety quite a bit so thank you!!
  
  Positive Thinking Too Soon to Tell
  
  Talking Working / Worked
  
  Abuse Counseling Too Soon to Tell
  
  My first therapy appoinment is in early January.
  
  Psychotherapy Working / Worked
  
  Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
  
  In my prayers today, March 12, 2008 I asked for Allah to teach me how to forgive my ex despite everything. It doesn't mean I will go back to him, but I want to learn how to truly forgive someone who has hurt me very deeply. Forgiveness is the mental and/or spiritual process of ceasing to feel resentment, indignation or anger against another person for a perceived offense, difference or mistake, or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution[1].
- Close Codependency
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  12 Step Program Too Soon to Tell
  
  Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Open Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
  My ex-boyfriend was emotionally and physically violent. He tried to kill me several times but i stayed out of guilt, and shame. There is so much, not sure what to say... i am not coping. I can't deal with the memories, i just break down crying.
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  Art Somewhat Helpful
  
  Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Too Soon to Tell
  
  I am having really bad flashbacks. I am having a hard time coping. I will talk to my therapist during our next session. Maybe he can diagonse m properly and I can start to get proper help for this.
  
  Rape Counseling Considering
  
  Talking Working / Worked
- Open Breakups & Divorce
  my boyfriend just dumped me and called my son a bastard
- Open Anger Management
  I'M NOT COPING!!!
- Open Military Families
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- Open Phobia
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- THE VENTING CLOSET
  
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- writer stories of Gods Grace
  
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- WAR ROOMS ADDICTS AND SURVIVORS ANONYMOUS
  
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- Healing the Child Within
  
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