Rest in peace Chuck
June 3, 2008 9:29am
To my mate Chuck in the States from here on DS. Gave up on this life on 27th May, my birthday.
I wish things had turned out …
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About Me
Just recently seperated. Going through a very very verynasty messy separation after I found she was seeing another man. 3 wonderful kids, suffering very very badly at not being there for them, to see my 1 year old daughter every morning and every evening. Now realise I have been suffering from depression for several years, just didn't recognise the signs or symptoms. Had to leave my house after finding out about the 2nd affair and am now living at......my Mothers! I am now several months down the line after finding out about the affair. Sadly, nothing has improved, in fact the whole situation has got alot worse...I just have to find the strength to fight this everyday....
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I used to enjoy going out with ex-partner (mo fo) and friends when we could get get a baby sitter, used to love socialisng and meeting new people, seeing different things. I was always up for a laugh and new experiences, was always told I was the life and soul... Missing my kids BIG TIME and used to love days out with them, zoo, cinema, country pub lunches, mooching around the shops, weekends away. Was always accused of spoiling my girls! Now I am being accused of being a crap DAD. Dont do anything anymore, can't even bring myself to turn the Xbox 360 on... My interest at the moment is trying to find ME again, he took a wrong turn some time ago...
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"I'm on my way from misery to happiness today"!!!
May 20, 2008 9:13am
http://pl.youtube.com/watch?v=kHjT-TEqLBs
Y'all gotta see this video!!!!
Well, where do I start?!
So much has happened since …
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Poor Ella
March 19, 2008 8:01am
I had the scare of my life on Monday.
I had a missed call from Ella’s mum at 5.50am, I picked up the voicemail at about …
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Journal Entry for March 13, 2008
March 13, 2008 5:44pm
Here is my mood, my feeling tonight. I miss G, I miss E….with all my heart. This song is for you, my …
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andy. just taking time to say hi and hope you are doing good. my shop is dying right now; economy is bad. hopefully things will pick up in the fall. let me know how you arexxxx love you nancy
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andy. just taking time to say hi and hope you are doing good. my shop is dying right now; economy is bad. hopefully things will pick up in the fall. let me know how you arexxxx love you nancy
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long time no see hope your ok buddy missing you xx
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Just in case... (((Hugs))) Hope yr well matey :)) xx
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andy. remembering you today... hope you are doing ok. love nancy
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Close Anxiety
After suffering with the end of my relationship things took a turn for the worse when I found she had been seeing another man. Huge feeling of betrayal, being lied to and the terrible feeling of loss.
Treatments
- Valium Working / Worked
- I think this works, was on a low dose. It did stop me shaking though! I now have been given an "emergency" supply, will use these when I am bad, I hope not every day!
- Rescue Remedy Not Working
- This was my Sister in Laws advice. Giving it a go just to keep her happy!
Close Depression
Type: Post Partum DepressionDiscovering the dishonesty of my partner at the end of our relationship that I did not want to end. The lies and betrayal are the hardest things to deal with. The lady who is the mother to my beautiful 1 year old girl was once my rock but now battles against me.
Treatments
- Celexa Working / Worked
- I think this is working.... Dont want to stop taking it, just in case!
- Elavil Not Working
- I have been given this 3 months after being diagnosed with depression. I do not sleep anymore, often only an hour or so each night. This has been prescibed for this, albeit in a low dose to start. I do so hope it works....
- Writing Working / Worked
- Putting my thoughts and feelings down in the journals has proven very beneficial to me. The comments and support helps hugely.
Open Infidelity
Lost the mother of my 7 year old daughter to a work colleague. They are now married. Just lost my partner and mother of 1 year old daughter. She said she needed time to find herself and still loved me but needed space. I went to my Ma's too stay for a short while and then found out my partner was infact seeing another man. They say lightning doesn't strike twice?
Open Breakups & Divorce
Relationship over, I made her unhappy and have been told it is all my fault. She had started seeing another man before the end, thats what tilted us over the edge. Now horrible and messy, house to sort, kids to sort, money to sort, betrayal to sort.
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- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- I bore them!
Open Parenting Toddlers (1-3)
Three kids, my 14 year old son lives in France with his Mother, my 7 year old daughter with his mother (her mother had an affair) and a 1 year old daughter who is with her mother (she also had an affair and the relationship has now ended) I am one of those part time dads that wants to be full time! I am worried how I will amuse my 1 year old when I eventually have her to stay with me in my temporary accomodation!!
Open Single Parenting
I am a part time Dad that didn't want to end up part time! 7 yr old and 1 yr old daughters who I miss terribly and will only be seeing every other weekend.
Open Single Dads
I am a weekend Dad and I struggle with this. My youngest daughter has just turned 1 and I have not been able to see her for nearly 2 month, my second daughter will be 8 this month and I have not seen her for a month and my eldest son lives in France with his mother and I have not seen him for 10 years! What a great life....
Open Financial Challenges
Since the breakup in July, I have been left with debts from the couple that are all in my name. The company I worked for folded in November, I have been out of work for 2 months and now cannot meet my obligations, mortgage, loan, credit card etc...Bankruptcy has been recomended to me by the CCCS....
Treatments
- Budgeting Working / Worked
- I will need to get a bout plan in place, I have been told to set up a "basic" bank account and have my salary from my new job paid in there
- Credit Counseling Working / Worked
- Am in contact with the CCCS.
- Earn Money Working / Worked
- Filing for Bankruptcy Working / Worked
- It has been recommended that I follow this path.
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