Hi all
July 24, 2008 11:36am
Just popped in to say Hello to all my friends.Hope you are feeling a bit stronger as time goes by.I continue on this journey of life still feelig …
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jenx
is feeling OK
passing time until my daughters phone call.She calls every afternoon o see how I am.
Recently: 2 hugs given, 1 journal post more …
About Me
Iam a 60 year old recently widowed after 43 years of happy marriage.I have 3 grown up children who are great.Iused to work in care in the community looking after the old and infirm.Iam finding life very hard after losing my soulmate.
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jenx gave emmgee a Hug 11:41am
thinking of you HUGS Jenx…
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jenx gave justyouandme a Hug 11:39am
althouh I am not around much I think of you often HUGS Jenx…
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jenx wrote a journal entry: Hi all 11:36am
Just popped in to say Hello to all my friends.Hope you are feeling a bit stronger as time goes by.I continue…
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jenx updated their status 11:19am
passing time until my daughters phone call.She calls every afternoon o see...…
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jenx changed their mood to OK 11:19am
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back home
June 4, 2008 8:47am
I,m back home after 3 weeks away in Florida.What a smashing placeand great weather I envy any of you who live there.The holiday went well I did …
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positive
April 30, 2008 12:34pm
Not been on for a while trying to feel positive but tomorrow is 1 year since John died.Ive been out to friends today and weve spoke about the year …
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Journal Entry for April 13, 2008
April 13, 2008 12:40pm
Hi to all my friends at ds I do hope you are all as well as can be expected.Not been around for a while been very busy with the family.Just come back …
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ROLL ON NEXT MONTH
March 14, 2008 12:10pm
What a rotten month be glad when its over
not only has my daughter had to have her beloved alsation dog put to sleep.[it had cancer similar to …
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I’m With You
So nice to hear from you, jenx. I have been rather quiet too lately - lost in the labrynth of my own thoughts, but I still think of my friends on DS every day. Hope your day is going well. Love and hugs, Enid
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Oh, jenx, my prayers will be with you tomorrow. It's so hard to believe that it is one year and 20 days today for me. I can't believe it. Yes, people say we are coping so well, but they don't know the tears we shed in private. Some people have told me the second year is harder. Oh dear! But, we must go on, musn't we. I wish I could have had some sort of celebration on our first year with friends, but I had to work that day. So the next day I went alone to the park where I bought Sherman's tree and saw his plaque. That was hard, but I sat at a picnic table with my lunch and watced the ducks and geese in the water and talked to Sherman. It really was peaceful there, but I like your idea better. Love and hugs, Enid
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Only 9 days left in this dreadful month! Hugs.
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Hoping you had a good weekend, dropping off a hug for you.
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/SpouseIlost my darling hubby of 43 years to pancreatic cancer on 1st may this year.Imiss him so much .He suffered terribly at the end but i was able to nurse him at home [where he wanted to be] and he died in my arms.
Treatments
- Crying Too Soon to Tell
- feel i did alot of my grieving before john died as he was given up to a year to live .that was hard living with knowing he was going to die.
- Keeping Busy Working / Worked
- Ihave a great family who take me here there and everywhere.they phone every night.Also being with the grandchildren helps.
- Music Not Working
- listening to some music especially the words of some songs I find really difficult
- Pets Working / Worked
- my house is alive with a niggley cat and a noisey budgie would not be without them
- Prayer Considering
- my hubby and Iwent to church but Ido not feel up to going back yet. not sure how Ifeel about it .
- Reiki Working / Worked
- I found this very helpful when john was terminally ill as it seemed to calm me.
- Socializing Working / Worked
- I have never been out so much [with family mostly but I go out whenever I am asked
Close Widows & Widowers
Ilost my darling hubby to pancreatic cancer on may 1st this year after 43 years of a happy marriage.He also had prostate cancer and diabetes.He suffered so much at the end.He was on so many drugs and so much morphine it was unbelievable.He died at home in my arms where he wanted to be.He was the love of my life and I miss him dreadfully.
Open Pancreatic Cancer
my hubby died may 1st this year pancreatic cancer.he also had prostate cancer.diabetes .he suffered so much.
Treatments
- Chemotherapy Not Working
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