Journal Entry for August 15, 2007
August 15, 2007 12:05am
The weekend was excellent. White water rafting is an absolute thrill. I got a chance to "ride the bull" which means sitting on the front …
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I am a separated father of 3 boys. My wife (soon to be ex) is a wonderful mother and was a wonderful wife until she threw me out - not sure why. I play tennis and enjoy my divorce-care group. I have returned to flying airplanes which is something that I gave up 15 years ago. I am a Christian, but I often ask God why He is allowing this to happen.
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Journal Entry for August 8, 2007
August 8, 2007 7:15pm
I talked for the first time with a divorce attorney today. She seems to know what she is doing. It astounds me how much this is costing. I feel a …
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Journal Entry for August 6, 2007
August 6, 2007 11:29pm
Today was not even close to yesterday. It was kinda routine, if there is such a thing in the mental health field. I saw my clients, took a bit of …
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Journal Entry for August 5, 2007
August 5, 2007 10:54pm
Today was a fantastic day. The kind of day that will help me get through the bad days. I went boating, jet-skiing, and swimming with my divorce-care …
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At the end of every day, before you go to sleep, think through the events of the day. If any events or moments did not go the way you wanted, replay them in your mind in a way that thrills you. As you recreate those events in your mind exactly as you want, you are cleaning up your frequency from the day and you are emitting a new signal and frequency for tomorrow. It is never too late to change the pictures.
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Thanks. He hired a lawyer today. I want him to leave the house and he wants to keep the kids and kick me out. A friend pointed out today if I want peace I need to be peace. Prayer , focus...meditate,,,,I want surounded in white light.
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I'm putting my husband through this. I'm sorry. Sorry to him. Sorry to you. It is going to get better for all of us going through this yuckiness. I really believe things are going to get better.
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You are doing Exactly what needs to be done and trust me when I say the quicker you move forward the quicker you heal from all the hurts. It DOES get better and better *smiles*
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Thanks so much for your support. I'm sure in the days and weeks to come I will need advice from a guys point of view. Thanks for offering to help me with that when needed. How are you doing?
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Close Breakups & Divorce
I met my wife and knew we would marry 2 weeks later. We married, had 3 beautiful boys, and separated 10 years later. Long story short ... We uprooted to follow her employment opportunity in October 2006 to move to Alabama, and things worsened with my 5 months of job-hunting. I got served the divorce papers last week.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Wife is pursuing divorce, but agreed to counseling. However, her reason was to make the divorce as painless as possible. Mine was to work on issues.
- Music Somewhat Helpful
- Linkin Park has some rather bitter music. Turn it up while riding in my car, can be somewhat therapeutic
- Pets Considering
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Would not know what to do without my family and best friend.
- Support Groups Too Soon to Tell
- Very social group - always doing activities. This group kinda starts growing on you, and I like the feeling that I am not alone.
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