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Journal Entry for January 25, 2008
Friday, January 25, 2008

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1. 

   sorry to hear that babes
   i believe you
   i hope you can get the help you need soon
   im here if you need me.
   hugs xx

   
   

   bailedy18

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   sweetie i really dont know how the system works by you. i am sure there is something. maybe research things online. i am so sorry you are going thru all of this. hugging you tight. i hope things turn around for you!

   
   

   mindy027

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   have you thought about going to the police and reporting your mother, yes it looks like they are thinking the little boy who cryed wolf, I'm am not saying that this is true or not but it looks like it... Some people who work in this sector do not understand for a minute what a person goes through and sometimes they do not believe the victum this is a scarry thing to say but it happens a lot of the time more than can be said, if you think about it how is a person/worker suppose to understand what a victim of abuse is going through if they haven't even been through something like this themselves, mmm yes they live in there perfect world where nothing happens and life is great for them they can not comprehend any abuse or what that person feels or is going through they have never gone through anything like this... Is there any chance of you moving to another help centre or another town for that matter, i know this sound scary or impossible but sometimes moving can bring on a better life, and it sounds like you don't need any contact with your family / mother any more, Yes I can also understand the workers as they expect the people in their care to act and move forward with their lives, they connot understand someone who constantley has things happening or wrong with them they do expect those people to help themselves that is a big part in a persons recovery, as they say if your not willing to help yourself then why should we, and that is what they are probably thinking by the looks of it... I'm sorry I can't offer more assistance but you do have the right to put in complaints but also they expect some proof of said incidents yes this is a very hard basket to have happen and having no proof makes it all the more harder... I don't know what else other than the things i've said that you can do besides complain complain complain till someone listens to you and helps you, but also people aren't stupid and if there is a chance that its not the truth then they will not help you with anything I'm not saying that you are a lyer but not willing to tell the police or charge her and I know that this is a hard feat to do but i'm sad to say thats how some people /workers think, it happens all the time every where all over the world it happens alot here in Australia thats why I've been studying my ass off to become a worker for abused people so they have someone who is there and understands what they are going through, My famous saying is the best worker is someone who has been through this themselves and a worker who understands is very hard to find, afetr many years of counsellors and psychologist there were quiet a few who I thought were absolute idiots and I called them text books because they could not in a million years understand the things I was going through and they did nothing to help me, and I know a lot of people who walk out of counselling to never and up getting the help they so desperatley need it is a crying shame in this day and age but it happens all the time you are not the only one... You are in my thought I hope things turn better for you sending all my love lesley xxxoooxxx

   
   

   power

4. 

   wow im so very sorry your going through this try talking to someone else

   
   

   stasia15145

5. 

   Power I do not agree with you just because I choose not to speak to the police about this incident due to the consequences does not make me a lier.
   
   Regardless of wether someone choose to go to the police about an assault they all should be supported and not left to deal it with it alone
   
   As the end of the day these people are here to support people, it is not up to them to decide what is true or false, anyone who goes throgh what I have been through should be believed unless there is something to prove otherwise.

   
   

   AJ1

6. 

   I'm really sorry that you're not getting the support you need to get through this. If you ever want to talk, I'm here to listen.

   
   

   Person913

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   The manager's response shows that he has very little understanding of the issue you talked to him about.I am vey sorry that you are not getting the suport that you need right now.I would be inerested to know if legally he can refuse you support as he is doing?Don't forget AJ1 that we are all here for you.I am thinking of you,Love Lydia xx

   
   

   nebel

8. 

   jus keep talkin sharin with others.... don't give up............ things will get better....i agree anyone who asks fer help should get it..askin is the 1st step to gettin better..an i also agree if u not been threw it[ meanin anyting... rape, abuse additions...whatever] .. u have no idea how to help someone.... a book can give millions of ways one might feel but ya only know fer sure if u been there..... i've been abused, i've been raped, i'm a recoverin alkie.......so yes i know the hell u goin threw, an yes i know hang in there it will get better.......keep askin til u find the one who share with u what u need to start gettin better......... i'm not sure if this is what u lookin fer but i sure hope this gives u some hope........Diane

   
   

   DianeE

9. 

   I think you should take the advise of "power" above, really I do. You cannot put up with this any longer. You need to do something now. Love Karen x

   
   

   lucylocket

10. 

    i agree but you know what this guy sounds like an ass

    
    

    loffra180

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