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Journal Entry for December 27, 2007 Mood
Thursday, December 27, 2007

Help Needed 

I dont know what to do need advice,I am living in a place which I moved into because it was supported accomodation as I know I need support, well all was going okish until the new manger arrived and though my licence agreement states that I am entailed to support during my stay which is two years.

This new manager has not only reduced how long we can stay here from two years to eight months, which is stupid as some people myself included  will not  be ready to leave then. But also we have all had our support removed and are not allowed to access any, leaving us in a very vunerable position, also he is saying things to us and making promises and breaking them.

The people living and working here are far from happy but are supposedto take it ashe has been in this line of work for ten  years therefore what he says goes, well I dont think what he is doing is right heis hurting so many people.

Just want to know if he is allowed to do this and if anyone out there know what I should  do in this situation.

 

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Comments

  1. ericch

    Talk to a lawery maybe' If this a govt' program then you should have more pull.


    ericch

  2. tattman

    Try and make the best of what you got. I dont know what to say sister. If I were you, I would keep every conversation recorded or written down every time you talk to this person, Document everything for your own safety and piece of mind sister, I hope things get better for you!!


    tattman

  3. poetrywriter

    talk to a lawyer like erichch has suggested.


    poetrywriter

  4. crzyglu

    deffo talk to a lawyer and research online your rights, if he is violating those rights then he should be removed and if you can get a patition together by other people who are living there that would be even better! try to put together a patition, and see what happens, find out who the owners are, if you already know who they are do your best to speak to them, try to write down incidents as well, keep records of whats going on


    crzyglu

  5. skindydo

    if your 'license agreement' in great brittain is the same as a 'contract' here in the states, a signed contract cannot be broken unless agreed upon by both parties, or an additional agreement is entered, such as providing housing for the time originally signed in the agreement... definately get some legal counsel, and talk to other residents there...get their take on things...and i agree with tattman, write and record...document, document and document some more....good luck


    skindydo

  6. joeymom

    Do you have a public advocate in GB? A advocate can advise you. Check it out. Good Luck HUGS..take care


    joeymom

  7. msa160

    yes if u have a contract there should a panelof peo over such buildings that u can complain to n ask for help too


    msa160

  8. jennifer22

    I think you need to go talk to someone, like a lawyer or someting. It just seems to me like you need some help.


    jennifer22

  9. tarzandan

    try to get support from social workers they have more pull or start looking while your there.


    tarzandan

  10. TAFFY

    AAAAWW man I dont no wut to say. srry abotu that. I hop it al works out for the best.


    TAFFY

  11. xXdebXx

    fuck that dude thats rediculous!


    xXdebXx

  12. nebel

    I wonder if you can go over his head so to speak.What i mean is can you speak to someone higher up than he is , to state your concerns.Also it would be worth other people in the house speaking up as well.Good luck,Love LydiA XX


    nebel

  13. scaredamy

    hey i would about this it doesnt sound fair what he is doing!


    scaredamy

  14. mumofthree

    hun you need to go to a legal aid center and then your local council to find out what you can and can't do to fight this..hugs hun!!!love ya lil sis!


    mumofthree

  15. kennady

    I think you should talk to a lawyer see what the law is there. That is wrong for him to even do then he is making promises that he no he vant keep. THATS WRONG VERY WRONG


    kennady

  16. mindy027

    is there anybody above him you can contact? if not, and you know he is breaking the law, contact a lawyer. he cant do that.


    mindy027

  17. revpatty

    AJ, the manager has a boss somewhere. The place you live was built for the purpose of helping people like you, and this person is really messing with that. If the agreement for length of time and support was in writing, then those that provided this facility need to know that their purpose is being violated and/or "messed with." If you can get several of the residents together with similar stories and write it all down, sign it and present it to the property owner, perhaps you will get some resolution that way. If there was a contract involved, this manager needs to know that you have legal leverage to get what was promised up front. If all the promises were verbal, then you could have problems, but at least having multiple residents with the same story could have more pull. There is such a thing as a verbal contract, but how they are enforced varies from place to place.


    revpatty

  18. elk1000ok

    Hi Aj , I think everyone has said best ideas, i do think you need to seek legal advice, thinking of you, hugs liz, x


    elk1000ok

  19. terri44

    hi AJ,
    Sorry i haven't been around, been trying to recuperate from 3 surgeries in a row. Anywho, enough about me, I totally 100% agree with skinydo, can u find a patient advocate that would help you or like other said a lawyer, really, really wish i could be more help, but please know we are all here for you!!!
    love and kisses,
    terri


    terri44

  20. economygrill

    Hi AJ,
    So sorry this has happened to you. It's completely unfair, and I think the law is on your side. Definitely get legal advice. Good Luck. Susan xxxxxxxxxxxxxx


    economygrill

  21. tarzandan

    find out for shure go above the managers head take your agreemnt or leace to someone who knowa law who can advise you.


    tarzandan

  22. power

    Sounds like he is taking rights away its not sounding good and yes by all means have a look on here and research your rights in support accomodation there should be something, and there should also be a phone number for organisations like this so people can put in complaints everything out there has a complaints department you just have to find the phone number looking in a phone book sometimes its easy to find in there, and make sure you talk to no one else but the complaints department, they can help you to find out your rights and what to do if there is a case of taking away peoples rights, its actually a criminal offence to take away the rights of people... hay where there's a will there's a way all the best girl. luv lesley xxxoooxxx


    power

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