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So yesterday I got off early from work. And so I wouldn't run in to my husband, I went to our apartment to pick up some stuff I needed and when I got there I found all the picture of me put face down. I thought it was kinda funny. I did the same thing to his dad's pic when he blew up on me and left. So I figured my husband did it to spite me. So I put my pics back and put a red flower by the one of me and my husband together. I made our bed and sprayed it with my purfume, lol. I was soo scared I was going to find evidence of the OW... nothing...
But like a bad movie scene my husband walks in the door. He got off of work early too! I hadn't seen or talked to him since I left on Tuesday night.
He said hi.. I said hi.. awkward... He said "you didn't expect me to be here, did you?". I said nope. He asked a couple more nonsense questions that I gave one-word answers too.. I just didn't prepare for that and didn't want to carry on a conversation. He asked if this was the 1st time I had been back. I said what did it matter.. Before I left I grabbed him, gave him a peck, and told him I loved him.... and he said it back!
Now normally when I said I love you, he's just say, I know.. or say nothing at all. But he said it back this time... I don't get it. Maybe it was just a knee-jerk reaction.. I don't want to get my hopes up. Or is his heart still tender towards me.... Sheesh..
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Oh FM, that emotional limbo is so tough. Give it time -- things will move toward stability one way or another, the ambiguity will be gone. Stay strong and keep writing, we're here for you!
pjj3
I know you wish that they would just grab you and tell you that they are sorry and everything would be ok. I am not where you are at, my wife and I are still working on things. I am scared to think that one day I might be where you are at. Chin up you are young and have your whole life ahead of you. At least you found out now instead of 10 years later.
Bradley
It took me leaving for my guy to tell me he loved me to it's what got me to come back and he's cheating again and it's only been 2 months! But what I have found out from therapy and just searching the net for info on cheaters is that he has a way bigger problem then I can deal with1 Your husband probably really does love you and you being gone has hurt him (which he deserves)! See if he's willing to get help that's what I'm gonna try and do! If he refuses I'm leaving but what you do will be your choice! It's very hard to walk away from someone you love! My thoughts are with you!
hanginginthere97