scarlet1234's Journal

There are days when we all feel the way you do. I feel like digging myself a hole in the ground and hiding. All within a second or a minute. We do not have a choice in the diseases we get, but we all have a choice on how we deal with our issues or problems.
Lots of hugs to you and yours. Judi

You can get through this baby..I am with you...please try not to be so hard on yourself..it will will will get better...xoxoxoxox LOVE YOU

i am so sad you feel like this if I could I would take the pain away but all I can do is send u my love and let you know someone cares. you can beat these feelings and take back control. x

Sorry you feel so down,we all feel like that at times but we have to get through it, there are people who need us, and I know your family need and love you.
We all care about you.You will get there.
Love and hugs. xxx

hey hey, why you are getting so upset baby girl, you gotta focus more on the positives...I got IBS too Im always constipated, today I had to smoke a cig in order to go take a dump lol, plus Ive been struggling with an anxiety disorder. We all have it tough, you are and always will be a beautiful person no matter how you look if you are skinny, medium, large or whatever. You are young, you can do anything you want in your life baby girl, wake up and smell the roses. I know you are feeling down but you gotta keep your head up. I'm always here if you need to talk!

dont let it beat you scarlett. there are always flip sides to the bad times , hang in for the good times, you dont know what thngs are going to be like in the future.when i was having a really bad time i used to think whats the point im always going to be like this so i might aswell give up because this is rotten ??? but what got me through was realising that you dont know for certain what is in your future , things coudl change drastically for the better unexpectadly, there is always that hope. i used to think that maybe in time some one some where would come up with something to help with ibs etc and i would hang on just in case!! and you know what i still think its a probability. keep going love , one step ata time. you are not alone . lots of people on ds understand, sympathise and care. x

Honey i felt the same last night, but you deserve to live and you wll et through this. We are all here for you. x

28, love clothes, got eating disorder since 16 ...more on the anorexic side ...battered with it for a few years...and then it gets better when I was 25 ...and then the IBS ..damn it. Why can't EVIL just leave me alone.I think IBS and eating disorder is somewhat related. And yeah, I FEEL FAT and sometimes i just really can't tell if it is bloating or weight gained. Buying lota new clothes, that I never wear becuz I feel fat -and those clothes are for the "skinny day"
I cried, i really think of killing myself, scream in the middle of the night not because it was that painful but I am so sick and tired of being so painful...but here I am , still alive and getting better...though still pretty sick.i am on acupuncture....getting better and better. You may wanna try it.

im so sorry you are hurting so much. I wish i could help and wave a maic wand. never loose the hope that things will get better some time.x

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you have so much stress in your life hun its no wonder you are down
i hope your mum is ok
love maria xxxxxxx

so sorry hun i know how you feel ive been there too. youve got to try a good diet and stick to it for a while to give it a chanc eto help your ibs. try the body ecology diet (amazon) it makes alot of sense. you could have candida related bowel probs and the diet would sort it out. give it a go. i know you feel really crap right now. take care hugs x

I think as long as you are stress your digestive system is going to act up. Don't confuse bloating with weight gain though. It always feels like I gained weight each day I feel bloated. And not moving your bowels will add to your weight but it will get normal when you can poop again. Hugs to you and your family!

BIG BIG HUGS FOR YOU. xoxoxox Wish I had the answers. x

The weight is probably fluid and bloating and it will go down when your tummy is more normal, the stress is so bad for you (all of us) but what can we do,you hve so much stress at the moment.
I will be thinking of you all.
Hugs. xxx

Man scarlet, do you think all this stress you have had let you to your weight gain? You make sure you mother is being properly taken care of and you will feel less stressed. You body should bounce back. I know it is hard to send a loved one away but if you and your dad can't keep up with her than this is a very good decision. I know you will still feel bad because it is your family. But try to find a way to live above this dissapointment in your life. You have a lot to offer! Hugs!

Dont feel bad about leaving your Mum, its the only thing you could do, you and your Dad need some rest, and she will be being well looked after, the weight gain will be due to stress, dont worry about that now.
Try and get some rest while your Mum is away, it will do you good.I know you will feel bad about it but it cant be helped and she will be ok.
Get some rest whilst you can.
love and hugs. xx