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Pete2008 (10/01/08)

Hi my JOLEY !! Miss ya babes ! Just got up...it's 11 AM here now - call me today if you get the chance !! LOVE N HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
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silentnight (10/01/08)

Hey to Annabelle!! have a good one Joley!!!!! - Laura
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Pete2008 (10/01/08)

Just going to bed - hope to talk to you tomorrow :0) LOADS OF LOVE TO YOU MY HUNNY !!! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
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Pete2008 (09/30/08)

JOLEY !! You too sweetheart ! You da BESTEST !!! HUGS AND LOVE !!! XOXOXOXOXOXOXO Can't wait ta hear from ya again !!!
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lostnlonely1986 (09/28/08)

No problem i don't live that far from merrillville. if u need anyone to talk to im me on yahoo its shakesnlexi1986 alright love hope u feel better!!!!
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Pete2008 (09/28/08)

Oh I forgot to tell you - I have FREE LONG DISTANCE to Canada and the US - ANYWHERE, ANYTIME ! Call me anytime my dear ! LOVE to hear from ya :0) HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
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Pete2008 (09/28/08)

JOLEY !! Love n HUGS !!! Talk to ya soon and I hope you're OK !!! XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
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Bougie (09/22/08)

Your message "Where are the insomniacs" brought a smile to my face. Insomnia is real, and can be pervasive, that is, seeming to have no end or solution. Non-insomniacs just don't get it. Thanks for getting on and posting.
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jenicombs (09/21/08)

Dear Joley.... I am so sorry to hear of your pain. I know what you mean about the sadness unconciously creeping up on you during those signigicant dates. I lost my sister to suicide March 22nd this year, after a long 2 year battle with her addictions and the consequences she got into it due to them. I also lost my dad 15 years ago on Sept 9th, to a heart attack. We share loss! I'd like to share with you some of my secrets to getting through those tough times.... 1. gratitude for having them as long as I did. 2. faith that i will see them again. 3. i open myself to signs of them with me (birds, good things coming into my life, coincidences) 4. keep them alive by writing sweet notes to them (i have a lil pad in a corner of my home that i walk over to & just write whatever comes to mind - its usually "i love you, i miss you , why did you leave me...." I also started a blog dedicated to my sister & put up pictures & write her letters & just journal my feelings.) It's pretty cool. I miss my sister & dad soooo very much, but I know they want me to keep living. I have gotten more spiritual which helps in my journey. I've read alot about suicide & joined "compassionate Friends" - I hope you find peace my friend. Any way I can help, i am here!! Jen
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darpatlas (09/21/08)

Sometimes there are no words to express what is in the heart and that is how I feel for you now. I am so very sorry you have experienced so much loss in your life. I wish I could give you a real hug in person because I believe they are very healing. Instead I am sending you all the love and support I have and hope that you can feel it in some way. The pain you have experienced is not "fair" and not brought on by anything you have done. The only consilation is that once you have experienced that kind of pain you are able to be there for others in a way those who have not experienced severe pain can not. I have found some comfort in that and I know I have brought some comfort to others. So although I could not be there for my loved ones I have been able to "pay it forward" in some small way. My heart truly goes out to you during this time. It is good you have reached out for help here. Please reach out for help among those who can physically give you a hug too.