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I am a medical assistant who is recently married. I love being married and I am so blessed. I thank God for all he has provided for me. My husband is my best friend and together we are becoming more involved in our church and learning more about our faith. We have 5 fur babies and enjoy helping others and animals in need. I have the best friends in the world (Brit, Tanya, and Sarah are my best girls!!)
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started a goal to To pay down our debts.
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Being very "skimpy" on what we spend money on, and pay one card off each month!…
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YAY WE PAID OFF THE WEDDING!!!!
One thing to remember don't be so hard on yourself. I didn't know I had Post Tramatic Stress until I needed help. Once I was able to deal with my fears and pain the sun shined in. My husband realized after we had been in counseling for a while that he was an inabler. He knew I was spending to much but wasn't sure how to handle it. I was a domestic violence victim for 15 years and by the grace of God I'm still here today. I was blessed to meet a man that loves me and adores me as I do him. We have a great marriage because we respect each other. When I started to lie to him about my spending problem. I felt like I was screwing up the best thing that ever happened to me. If you are going to get married, from a women that knows,always be honest no matter how hard it is, respect each other and always love each other like there's no tomorrow. God doesn't promise us tomorrow. I hope you don't mind my advice and opinions. I guess it's the mother in me. Bonnie
Thank you for sending me a hug. Bad day at work I really needed it. Hugs and prayers to you as well. Bonnie
Keep taking it one day at a time. Always ask your self if it is a need or a want. It has helped me to stay out of the mall and shopping centers. Take someone with you when you go shopping that understands your addiciton. Just a few suggestions. OH... one more keep track of your spending amount. It can get out of control before you know it. Keep in touch I will help if I can. Hang in there and know you are not alone. God Bless Bonnie
Awww, thanks for the hugs :) Hope you're having a wonderful day! You deserve it!