That dream of a vacation can still come true!
May 18, 2008 6:25pm
I just got back from two weeks in Italy and it was wonderful. I remember when my ex left me all I could do was cry over the fact that we …
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lindme
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I am a professional in the health care software business. I believe in marriage and family but ended up divorced after 27 years of marriage
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Journal Entry for April 13, 2008
April 13, 2008 10:50am
Today is April 13 and it is sunny and 40. Spring is really taking its time getting to MN this year. I am doing well over all. I …
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Journal Entry for November 6, 2007
November 6, 2007 5:32pm
Today is November 6th and it is starting to feel wintery outside. I hope that all of you who are dreading the onset of cold weather have some …
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Journal Entry for September 13, 2007
September 13, 2007 9:24pm
Wow, I read some of the stories on this site and it is so familiar to me. So many of the emotions are things that I went through in the …
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Journal Entry for September 5, 2007
September 5, 2007 9:07pm
Wow, I'm in love with a fantastic man! Two years ago when I could barely get out of bed to go to work in the morning I never would have …
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I would say the same for you, hang in there you will be ok, you are obviously a smart, wonderful woman, I know that you will move on and continue to be the wonderful person you are. We are here for you at anytime.
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Thank you for your support....it is truly appreciated. I hope we can be friends...I think I could learn a thing or two from you. God Bless
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Close Breakups & Divorce
The picture is of my girlfriends and I in our pool on vacation in Roatan. I am divorced after 27 years of marriage. I worked very hard to make him happy and he ended up cheating on me with one of his employees for a long time and lying to me when I asked him to tell me the truth.
Treatments
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- letting go and forgiving was a self serving exercise. It helped me find peace and a way back to who I really am
- Love Working / Worked
- Now that I have found the many forms that love takes - my kids, my friends, my extended family and even myself, I am able to truely love a new man in a way that is meaningful and deep rather than needy and rushed.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- ex husband wouldn't go to counselling so I went alone. It helped some.
- Reading Working / Worked
- Books included "Too Bad to Stay, Too Good To Leave" "Surviving Infidelity" "When your Lover is a Liar" "Loving Kindness" The Bible all kinds of humerous books also did tons of New York Times Crossword puzzles - great for getting your mind on something else that will drive you nuts!
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Family has been there through the horrible times and the good times
- Supportive Care Working / Worked
- Girlfriends - they are the BEST treatment for what ails you when you go through this. I have laughed, cried, talked for hours and travelled with them. My girls rock!
- Time Working / Worked
- even with the passing of time, I greive for my marriage and the family that we once had. Now that more time has passed I have changed this to "working/worked" because the more time that passes the more at peace I am with the divorce. I can see now why my marriage failed and I can see how much better off I am with my current love.
- Zoloft Working / Worked
Close Scleroderma
Type: Diffuse SclerodermaMy only daughter was diagnosed with Systemic Scleroderma a little over a year ago. She has all the symptoms - thick skin, very little movement left in fingers and wrists, severe lung involvement, gastrointestinal problems, Reynoud's etc. Since there is very little that I can do for her other than help her, support her etc. I want to raise awareness about this nasty disease.
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- Cellcept Working / Worked
- minimally helpful - skin only
Open Infidelity
My husband of 27 years cheated on me with one of his employees
Treatments
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- For the most part I have forgiven him for the cheating, still struggling with the fact that he lied to me time after time. Also still struggling with forgiving her - someone who posed as a my friend all the while. I'd prefer just to forget she exists but since he moved in with her, that is not possible and my adult kids will have nothing to do with her so their relationship with their dad is strained at best - even after two plus years.
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