last night was yet another turning point in all of this mess! He called to see if I was still going through with signing the papers, at first I really wouldnt answer him, I just said yes, but I said that I was going to keep my name on this house, knowing what the house and the land is worth I would be dumb to take my name off, I said that he could live here , but if he was to sell it I was going to get half money! He didnt like that too much, doesnt think it is fare, oh well, I didnt ask for this to happen, all I ever wanted was for you to walk throught that door, but that didnt happen, He said that I was then lieable for half of all his debt, I said okay, well I dont want my half of the boat ,or that nova, so I would like you to buy me out, if you want to keep them, He then changed his attudude, then it was well, I will agree to your terms, I thought he would, I reminded him again that I didnt want this, this was all of his doing! Then he says this to me~~~ well you know I still love you! I almost fell off my chair, what the hell , why are you saying this now, you know, I think it is just bs, you only love yourself, if you loved me, this wouldnt be happening, we would be trying to rebuild this marrage, not tearing it apart, plus the I love you has come alittle to late, Iam finally giving you want you want, and you are still playing the mind games with me, you know , that am done , and that you dont have control over me,or my feelings anymore. so to try to gain control again over my feelings, you throw out the I love you bs! well I dont believe you! save it for someone who will believe you! He didnt like that I wasnt believeing his BS, He contuie to message me throught the night, about, how we both werent happy , and you have to be happy to love someone, just a bunch of lies, that am no longer buying!!!!
i think he and todd have already been with another woman and know that is the truth of why they are doing this. you be careful about giving this and that. there are details to look for that i didnt know so be careful. he is a loser to do this. simple and clear.
justthe5ofus
Sounds like you are starting to see things for what they really are. It's interesting how they want to do what they want but they don't want you to do what you need to. You're in a tough situation because you're still talking and he can still try to play the mind games with you. At some point, you are going to have to take a stand. When was the last time you saw your counselor?
caligirl67410