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Welcome..my best wishes as you try to master this,,Love from England..
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welcome bf13 hang in there
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hi butterfly- hope your feeling o.k.-chris
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i thought i wanted a similar thing. i goofed and acted before we divorced. if you are a 100% sure that your marriage can't work, then tell him so. most of the time men don't realize what they've got in front of them until it's too late. my stbx told me that if i would've just told him how i feel, then we wouldn't be where we are today: which is divorced. i could've been happy with him. he just didn't love me the way i wanted to be loved. i didn't love him either. we were content, but not 'in love'. i wanted that butterfly feeling of love. just so you know, that butterfly feeling only lasts for a short time. i know you say you're unhappy, but tell him that you're unhappy first and see what happens. you never know...you could rediscover him in a new light.
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butterfly13 hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Close Alcoholism
I may drink 2 glasses of wine or 4 glasses. This all started when I use to work the night shift. On my day off (when I didn't have to go to work that night) I'd make a nice dinner and have wine. My husband would comment when he saw the wine, "oh, your home tonight"? Now I work days and like today(tomorrow being my day off) I had 3 glasses of wine, felt good for awhile then went to bed around 7 pm and got up around 11:00. I hate myself in the morning. I can't seem to stop this.
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- When I was on this diet, I stopped drinking for 10 days. I felt good.
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