mom2girls's Journal

Well, i found out last week that he is having a baby w/the woman he moved into his house when i wouldn't pack up my girls and move across the country. So any hope of a future w/him pretty much died then and there. I did e-mail him to congratulate him. He has wanted to be a dad for so long! I love him enough to be happy for him. He never responded. Then Tuesday he texted me out of the blue. The first 2 were dirty. I deleted them, the rest was clean. He claimed he knew the myspace thing was fake the whole time that's why he said nasty things about me and threatened me. Yeah right. I don't believe him for one second. He says that he doesn't love the mother and she doesn't love him, they aren't getting married, they are just staying together for the baby. They both know that it will end eventually. I am sure he is right. I do believe him on that part. He kind of wants to go back to old habits w/me so that when things w/her finally end he can pick up w/me where he left off. Well that's not going to happen. As soon as i learned he was having a baby w/someone else i knew that a romantic relationship w/him was out of the question. It jsut wasn't in the cards for us. If he wants to be friends and keep it clean like when i was w/my stbx then fine. If he tries to make it intimate i WON"T respond. I let him know that as well. He really hasn't said to much to me since Tuesday. So i guess i'm a lot stronger than he thought i would be.