Journal Entry for September 2, 2008
September 2, 2008 1:22am
Not written for a while.
Things are moseying along.
Mark has been down in the dumps and suicidal and 'lonely' and has been ringing me a …
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About Me
Hi! I am a family based woman with a happy disposition. I like to play golf and have also taken up competitive rowing over the past two years and love it. I have had some relationship traumas over the past year which have taken their toll, but am still smiling with the help of some wonderful friends and family. I am looking to chat with some others who perhaps have undergone similar experiences in the hope it strengthens me for my own journey. I am looking at divorce and I am 47 years old. Given him 26 years of my life and finding it hard to let go and move on.
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Golf, rowing, reading, drawing, friends, family, walking or hiking.
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Journal Entry for August 6, 2008
August 6, 2008 8:02pm
Plodding along.
Lots of things happening from a positive viewpoint from my move to Brisbane. Still rowing with Prue and she and her husband are …
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Journal Entry for July 17, 2008
July 17, 2008 10:36pm
Have been having a few good days with good things happening, like things coming on time and being busy and getting things done. All about me and …
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Hay just a hug. Hope Bris vagas is great!
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Glad to see you are happy again. I can identify so much with what you are going through!
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sounds like you have found yourself again after 20yrs ....fantastic :)
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wishing u all the best
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So very very happy for you! Have a wonderful day!
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Close Breakups & Divorce
Hi, I have been fighting infidelity in my 20 year marriage for 2 years. Long story, and consider me stupid, but each time I catch my husband back communicating with the mistress, I call our relationship off and somehow he gets me to believe in him again and I let him back in. It has worn me down over time and I am at last trying really hard just to tell him where to go as I just cannot build trust for him again. Tonight I have told him I cannot go on. I am scared but this has to be right.
Treatments
- Love Working / Worked
- I have a huge capacity for complete and utter love. I am perhaps an idealist rather than a realist though. I still love my husband despite the trauma.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- I have a wonderful therapist who has helped me grow into an independent woman who has set boundaries in life and who will embrace her life journey.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Many, many friends. Some are judgemental. Mean well, but cant accept why I keep going back for more of the same from him. Others silent and supporting.
- Time Working / Worked
- Two years of heartache for me. Two years of on and off infidelity. I need a complete break from it and I am sure time will heal.
- Faith Working / Worked
- I read a book called "Buddhism for Busy People". Great philosophies for good clean living and happiness. Gives me great focus.
Close Infidelity
My husband has been cheating on me with the same woman on and off for two years. I have a very complex and painful journey but can say now that part of me is pleased that I have taken this journey, as my emotional growth has been superb. The pain and heartbreak has been unbearable at times though, and the long term effects on our marriage may mean it is irretrievable.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Healthy Sex
47 year old healthy woman recently out of a 20 year marriage. Just a few questions about some things i need an update on!
Open Depression Supporters
Have a friend who i have known for about 6 months, who has suddenly become anxious and depressed. If i look at what i know about him though, i can see that perhaps the tendency to be low was there all the time, as well as the anxiety and fears. It has hit him like a bomb and it is frustrating the hell out of me. I am a happy go lucky person who manages to find a positive in everything. I consider my self empathetic, but am at a loss sometimes as to how to help here.
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