Tom999’s Profile

About Me

I am retired but work part time. I have a family of four children and a wife. My children are all adult and have left home in 2006. Found my wife and myself did not know each other. Want to get it right. The damaged marriage triggers depression. I need to deal with these problems. I have had cognitive therapy, the nut doctor and meds. They didn't really help. I have decided to do it myself. I have also decided not to compromise on my marraige. If we cannot achieve the way it "should" be, I will leave it. No half measures are acceptable to me after all this time. I have accepted less than committment, comprimises and half measures for decades - enough is enough. I am at the point now I need to decide my future. This is the hard bit, nothing I have done has worked. It is clear that my wife does not love me, I suspect she never did. I think I was just a habit. These decisions are hard.

Interests

Travel a lot, keep bees, grow things, make furniture and lots of other things.