jody0385's Journal

If you look at my entry before this one, you'll see the guy that called his daughter terrible names in what once was a PUBLIC journal entry that is now private. He wants me to stop sending him messages, but as you can see he won't stop sending them to me. Has Doug done anything to stop this? Nope. Has doug pointed out a specific sentence in any of my communications with this user that was abusive? NO. All I got from Doug was a message that said this:

I am not going to argue with you. You initiated the conversation with very personal remarks, furthermore, saying you have the right to judge the user(regardless of the subject matter or if I agree with the user) is not cool and not what the site is about. Furthermore, I was not referring to this particular messages, I was referring to the last two messages. Thanks.

And this was in response to my message to him that contained each and EVERY communication except the journal entry of the other user becuase it is now private, and my journal entry that Doug and collegues found to delete from MY account that named noone.

At any rate, because there is so much wrong going on here I will be checking in fewer times then normal. Noone wants to check the facts, they all want to claim abuse, but when asked for a specific example (and if I was abusive there would be an example from my messages right????) they can't give one then I say it's unfair and unjust to treat me like I've done something wrong. Not once did i say I could judge the other person, I said when you make a PUBLIC journal entry where comments can be made, that person should expect comments to be made... DUH!!!! (As my 14 year old would say).... Yep I have a 14 year old.. Guess what... I've never called him cruel names such as this user did to his daugther.. Or I should say ABOUT his daughter here. He claims he never calls her name to her face... But "bitch" and "ho" came out several times in his journal entry...

Well all, have fun here, edit your comments and remarks CAREFULLY as you can never be too careful. Be weary of who you try to help as they may have a short temper and go off on you like this guy did me, and Doug will think it's alright to do. Sexist? Maybe... I think it's useless to list rules and policies here if you only make some people follow them and not everyone. This user now has listed my name in his journal, where i wasn't allowed to even list remarks he made in mine without naming his name...

Again I say shame on doug and all the other moderators here at DS for jumping on some bandwagon with this guy without looking at all the facts. This guy should consider himself lucky he's still here. I'm hoping that's just for a short time. Although I know if they were to delete his account he'd just sign on under another name. Oh well. LIfe is too short to worry and fuss over the idiots of the world.. Yup I called him an idiot. That's what he is... Or crazy! Wants me to stop sending him stuff and yet he still sends it to me. Whatever!