Didnt end it but in limbo
April 30, 2008 7:27pm
My husband asked me to dinner this evening and when it got down to it...in other words, when I finally learned the real reason he was asking me to …
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femmenoire
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About Me
Teacher, recently married, one step-sone, passions=dance, music, theatre
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Journal Entry for March 17, 2008
March 17, 2008 4:05am
It is about 230 and I am up because I am thinking about ending my marriage. It hasnt even been a year and already it looks as though my marriage is …
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Journal Entry for December 16, 2007
December 16, 2007 2:42am
I am absolutely furious right now. I had an arguement with my mother a few hours ago. regarding my grandmother. My grandmother dips snuff (a very …
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Journal Entry for November 18, 2007
November 18, 2007 8:12pm
My migraines have gotten better. I am taking Cymbalta daily as a prophylaxis. The first two weeks were rough. I had a headache daily. They have …
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Journal Entry for November 1, 2007
November 1, 2007 9:39pm
I hadn't posted anything in a while. I have just been swamped. I had a really bad migraine last weekend. I spend the majority of the weekend in …
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HI.....just wondering how you are doing and what's been going on lately....I tried to check that one post ...abuot you giving up but there wasn't anything recent on it...what's the latest??
Prayer
thanks for the prayer!
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I can relate, I have somewhat been on strike, not by my choice...my SS has 59% in english, 27% in spanish!!!! BM and BF have yet to deal with it!!!
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breathe in ......breathe out....have a better day!!!
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Support Groups
Close Step Families
I just recently got married Easter weekend 2007. My husband has been married twice, I make wife number three. He has a 10 yr old son that he has custody of. I hit the ground running two days after I got married. I was thrust into the role of wife and step-mother all at once. So far, I see very few boundaries and rules for the child and it contradicts what I know about children and their need for boundaries. Our current challenge is coming together on rules and boundaries for his son.
Treatments
- Research Somewhat Helpful
- Husband argues with everything. Nothing seems to be working and I am getting frustrated
Close Menopause
48 and beginning to experience symptoms of menopause. I have 4 fibroids that are the main source of my problems and one uterine polyp. I will be having a hysteroscopy with a myoma resection next week. My symptoms so far are night sweats and extreme vaginal itching.
Open Migraine Headaches
I started getting migraines about 10-15 years ago. I have tried everything from ergotomine to demerol to topamax. My main triggers are hormones, tar or any LOUD smell even if it is a good smell; heat, and nitrates. Heat and smells seem to create the worst migraines to where I am sick and in pain for three days. I am currently trying Cymbalta combined with Maxalt
Treatments
- Aspirin Not Working
- made my stomach hurt
- Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Somewhat Helpful
- there are times when I can smell something, good or bad and it will just set off the worst migraines. The enviromental factors are the hardest to control.
- Axert Somewhat Helpful
- works at times but I only get 8 per month@ 40.00.
- Excedrin Not Working
- Fioricet Not Working
- too much aspirin in it
- Fiorinol Not Working
- Imitrex Not Working
- worked for awhile then stopped working
- Magnesium Considering
- going to try this again
- Maxalt Too Soon to Tell
- this is my latest treatment along with cymbalta
- Midrin Not Working
- midrin had no effect
- Naproxen Not Working
- makes my stomach bleed
- Relpax Somewhat Helpful
- worked sometimes and then at other times it did not
- Topamax Somewhat Helpful
- Side effects were not bad...manageable and went away after about a month
- Tylenol Working / Worked
- has to be tylenol 3; concerned about the amount of acetaminophen i have to take
- Zomig Not Working
- worked for a while then. Problem was my insurance company will only pay for so many
Open Caregivers
i have a 95 yr old grandmother in a nursing home. She has been there sine 2006. Even though the nursing home do all the more difficult things, I still do her laundry, purchase her toiletries, etc. I have been here once before with my father anf I am growing a biot resentful, because, her children, my mother and uncle have used me as their "out"
Treatments
- Pataday Working / Worked
Open Healthy Sex
femmenoire hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Open Family Issues
Married to a man who comes from a dysfunctional family. The family issues have invaded our marriage and the way he raises his child.
Treatments
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
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