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I need a little advice so if people who know me would reply to this soon that would be great! : ) Today is my birthday. I was supposed to go hang out with a group of friends but I don't know if I should or not. In this group of friends is a guy I like. Yesterday I found out that he is dating someone. : ( And he is bringing her tomorrow to hang out with us. Soooo...I don't really want to hang out with them...I guess...I think...I don't know. But I also feel bad. Some friends from out of town are coming to visit. And I said I would come to hang out with them. And it's not like I can explain to everyone why I'm not coming. Plus I don't really have anything else to do for my birthday. My other friends I could hang out with are out of town for the weekend. Any advice on whether I should go or what I could do for my bday???? Thanks.
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Happy birthday...I don't know what to say, I did that once with an ex. I went to friends wedding and he and his girlfriend were there. I felt much better after I met her and saw he was happy. But that was just me so I am sorry that I can not give better advice.
StarrAngel
Happy birthday!!! That's a tough one. I'm not sure how big your group of friends is but maybe where some friends of yours are coming from out of town, you'll be so busy catching up with them that you won't really notice him much once you start talking. I'm sure you'll notice him at first of course, that's only natural but maybe everyone will be so focused on your birthday and you having fun that it won't matter. Just a thought. Either way, hope you have a wonderful birthday!
Depressednsick
Always hang out. Just have fun and enjoy YOUR day! It's okay if he's dating someone else. It doesn't mean they're getting married. :)
Never let anyone hold you back. Remember, it's about you celebrating your birth and they get to come along for the ride.
I LOVE my birthdays. It's a day I get to spoil myself. It means one more age I get to be! Go have fun and FOCUS ON THAT! Besides, the most attractive thing is being confident and enjoying yourself without worrying about others.
I have been proposed to 25 times (yes, 2 then 5) now. I clearly know how to get, and keep, the guy, if I want him. ;-p
Brillante