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born lucky.
this journal is dedicated to the two most wonderful people i have been fortunate enough to call my parents ,mum and dad.
when i entered this world one cold december morning ,like all the babies born that week ,my entry into the big wide world was nt alot different to theirs ,yet in so many ways ,mine wasa journey only just begun .many people and circumstances would decifer where i would eventually start my life ,and now that i am older ,i realise how very lucky i was.
you see my birth mother was to eventually make a heart rendering decision ,one which though ,oh so difficult for her ,would make my life ,as happy and fulfilled as it has been.whilst she wanted to keep me ,my natural mother decided she couldnt provide al i needed and wanting the best for me ,decided to put me up for adoption.something now having had 3 beautiful children of my own ,i admire and realise how very hard and courageous a decision it must have been for her ,but one i will eternally be grateful to her for.and i also believe my parents were waiting for me already.
for while i was awaiting for the right couple to come along to make me their own ,they were not that far away from where i was born and just starting out.my mum was a seemstress for singers ,and my dad was a naval offic er in the royal navy.although young and newly married ,they were happy and wanted very much for a baby of their own to complete their family.how ever they were not to have c hildren themselves due to circumstances beyond their control ,and i firmly believe they were not mean to ,that someone far greater had planned for me to be theirs long before as they were to tell me later ,i was specially chosen by them and brought home to be with my family.
both my mum and dad were to undergo many tests before it was found they couldnt have a child of their own ,and decided they would try to adopt a baby .so ,there were numerous forms to be filled ,doctors to see and be examined by ,and many people would trapse through the home awaiting me ,neighbours asked ,checks made ,to ensure they would be good parents.and after what mum says seemed like an eternity ,one spring morning (my mums birthday infact ,),they arived at the adoption society to take me home ,and we would become both mum and dad and daughter.a family ,my family.
right from the start ,mum says i was an easy ,happy ,contented baby and child,I think it wasnt so much that ,but i had the most wonderful parents ,who loved me dearly ,and from this i grew into a cheerful happy loved child,who 3 years later was to be joined by a brother ,also adopted ,and so our family was complete,the long journey we had begun ,was now very much complete.
as the years passed ,we did all the usual things every family does ,holidays ,usually spent with my grandparents too ,tow other very special people in my life.christmas`s were spent with nan and grandpa too ,as were easter ,birthdays ,all family occassions,it made them the happy times they were.from reading stories at bedtime ,to helping with homework ,my dad was right there giving me encouragement always ,and helping when it was needed,never making me feel i wasnt good enough ,only pointing me in the right direction.mum was always there for us ,when we were growing up ,teaching right from wrong in her own firm but gentle way,and always sup;porting whatever decisions i made.when i married ,and my husband had to go into hospital for major surgery ,they were with me all the way ,looking after the children while i remained b y his bedside and there when i got home ,shoulders on which i could always lean.with mum and dad i knew i was never alone.this carried on as the years went by ,and it was with so much pleasure and pride on their 50th wedding anniversary ,we managed to surprise them by holding a special celebration with their closest and dearest friends and family ,even bringing mum`s brothers over from canada to share in their own special day.it was my chance to say thankyou to the two most wonderful ,special people in my life.It was a day we would never forget .
the next couple of years passed quickly ,the family grew ,as my brother and his wife added to their brood ,and my girls started to bloom into young women.one thing remained the same ,the love and respect we all now had ,for my parents.but sadly ,nothing stays the same forever.just 2 years ago ,the girls father needed more surgery on his heart .once again ,mum and dad were there ,strong for us all ,and when matthew sadly passed away just a month after his operation ,it was they who propped us up and steered us through .but ,they were always going to be there weren`t they?my dad ,the same dad i had loved all my life ,he was always going to be there ,with the right words to say ,knowing exactly what to do when a problem arose.so when just four short months after we lost matthew ,my dad was rushed into hospital himself ,with pnuemonia ,he was going to be fine wasnt he?however as i stodd over the bed ,watching the man i loved and adored so much ,i saw the tired ness and weary look on his face .and when the doctors told us they could do no more ,i knew ,although my heart was breaking ,i knew that it was his time to go.I can remember kissing him goodbye for the last time ,telling how very much i loved him ,and always would ,that i would take care of mum for him ,always ,he didnt need to worry .now .eighteen months later ,i still miss him more than words can say ,yes ,mum and i are still close as ever ,and dad ive kept my promise ,im watching out for mum ,and always will do,
but ,though i have lost one of the most important people in my life ,i still have my mum ,and to finnish ,i have really only one thing to say .yes ,i still believe all those years ago ,that you both choosing me ,meant i was truly born lucky .mum and dad ,thankyou for everything ,i love you both very ,very much ,sharon xx
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This story is very moving! The support from mum and dad can't be replaced by anything! Thanks for sharing. xxxooo
dkay
that was just beautiful Sharon,
thankyou.
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butterfly888
Your mum and dad were so lucky to get a precious girl like you!!!! I know your mum feels that way even to this day. Although your journey has been difficult at times you always knew deep inside that their love and support would be there.
Thanks for sharing that lovely story!!!
Love and huge hugs to a wonderful friend.
Gabby :)
gabbygal
what a beautiful entry - thank you for sharing just a glimpse of the love and warmth you must have had growing up! You are so fortunate to still have your Mum - I know she must be so proud of you, and love you so much!
PaganChild
You have moved me to very happy tears. What a wonderful and blessed life you have had! I, too, believe that God intervened and put your wonderful family together. So happy you shared that with us! Love to you and your wonderful family! Heather
heatherp
very moving story .....glitter hugs ...xxxx
ladyglitter
What a lovely story Sharon! Very moving and touching!
Monkey13
You are such an open, compassionate and a caring sharing type of gal. You rock!!!! (((((hugs))))))
vod
What a beautiful story. Your story reminded me alot of my own adoption. I was born June 23, 1950 to a my birth mother who kept me til I was 7 yrs old and knowing she could no longer care for me. Through a Dr myb adoptive parents were called to see if they would like a little girl. I was brought my by my Aunt on Oct 27, 1957. That is the beginning of my wonderful story. I remember very little of my younger years. Thank you for sharing your life story. Each and every one of a special beginning. God Bless you always. Suzannd
ssuba
O what a tender,beautiful tribute to your parents.Very touching.Made me cry remembering my own dear ones.Thank you for telling us about them.God bless you all.
littlewing
What a wonderful testimonial to your parents. I could feel the love and pure pleasure in your words. What a loving and grateful daughter you are! Thanks for sharing, Cathy
mica
Beautiful Sharon, absolutely beautiful xxooxx
SarkyCow
How beautiful the memories you have to cherish. My daughter and her hubby are trying to find that special child for them to adopt right now. I believe they will be the best parents in the world for some very fortunate little baby for God has also chosen the right one already for them, jusy as He had for your parents. God bless and may your future years be strong and full of love as you continue to raise your own daughters. Sylvia
PudsyP
Beautiful! What an inspiring post!! I can feel how much you love your family.TY so much for sharing your story.
chimmer
That is wonderful. May you still have many wonderful years with the mum who has been there for you.
Hathani
Sharon, what a wonderful and moving story, I am sitting here with tears rolling down my face as I write this.. I agree your mum and dad are the most precious people in your life and your parents sound like wonderful, loving and suportive people who havae helped you be the person you are today - a truly loving, caring and supportive parent and friend. Thank you. Love and hugs always Pamela. XXX
betterdays
Sharon, thank you for posting your story....it made me cry with joy and sadness.
I am grateful to have such a good friend as you and I draw from your strength and family love.
Your Friend
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eightagain
Sharon, this journal was so moving. I couldn't help but cry, but they were tears of joy. You and your parents were very blessed. I can see where your caring and thoughtfulness comes from.
I also want to thank you for being here for me. You always seem to know when I need a hug or words of encouragement. Stay strong and always remember how wonderful you are. Friends forever, Sheila
sheila1
wow! that was very moving, im so glad i read it, i feel as if i know u even more now. i wish my son had the chance to tell me things like this before he passed, he was in the teenage years , where its not so cool , to tell your parents what they mean to u. i guess one day ill see him again, and we can sit and have a talk like that.
katkawl
You are so SPECIAL and I feel very proud to call you my friend.
Your journal was like reading a novel.
If you are anything like your Dad & Mum, then you ARE wonderful.
How lucky you are to have them.
Thank you for sharing this.
It will help me in my journey with my own very sick Mama.
Love you sweetie.
Your a Godsend.
Blessings and Peace be with you always.
KZ
doneitall
What a touching tribute to your mom & dad. They raised a truly wonderful daughter! We have very much in common with our parents and having been adopted (chosen).....I was soooo "lucky" as well. I loved reading this from such a fully grateful perspective. God bless you Sharon....and thanks for sharing your life & heart with me! Love, Robyn
Robynann
the tears are rolling down as I read your tribute to your parents, that was the most touching heart felt story I have read.you really touch me with your words. happy or sad.THEY RAISED A BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER,ONE TO BE PROUD OF.....
dingram
That was such a beautifully written story of your life. Thanks so much for sharing. And I truly believe that you are right. You were chosen for them way before you were born.
Much love, furry
furball
that was beautiful hun and thank u so much for sharing this personal tale of ure parents and ure fam :) ure so awesome and i am so blessed to have u in our fam grl and i hope u knw i am always here for ya no matter waht and ure always in our prayers :) stay strong and never give up hun :)
KsHOrTy