I know that my perverted humor is a defense mechanism, but last night I put it into words for myself. I'm perverted because I'm uncomfortable and thats how I make others uncomfortable. Also if I throw somthing really off the wall at a person and they can handle it than I know they have a better chance of being able to handle me! I have become more conservative in the past couple years, there are times when people can shock me! I went to a party girls party (sex toy party) yesterday and OMG the game where you have to pass a double edged dildo between your thighs to another person was too funny! Of course the fact that you can use anal ease for toothache and papercuts amused the hell out of me. Did you know you can use the edible nipple cream as chap stick? It was acutally a lot of fun.