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pianogirl's Profile

Feeling: Ok  - Ok
Gender: Female
Age: 46
Interests:
piano, baseball, literature, fitness, bird-watching
About Me:
I've been in a sex-starved marriage for 18 years with a husband who is a serial cheater. Even though I know his cheating is his own sickness, it has taken its toll on my self-esteem and happiness. I'm working on my inner strength and waiting to see if he will finally face his issues and work on our marriage, or if I should give up and move on. What can I say, I'm hoping for a miracle.


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    reil64 (2:09 pm)

    How have you been?


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    reil64 (05/14/08)

    Hello ((((((HUG))))))


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    deeds1 (05/14/08)

    thank you for your support

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Goal Completed on May 12, 08

Support Groups

 Infidelity
My husband seems to need a lot of "fans." He has had a series of short term affairs over our 18 year marriage, but I only found the truth in February 2007. I tried to reconnect, he had another affair discovered 2/2008 and we separated. Trying couples' counseling as a last ditch effort. 
Treatments
 Couples Counseling (Too Soon To Tell)
 Forgiveness (Considering)
 individual counseling (Working / Worked)
This has been my lifeline. I could never have faced the difficult decisions I've had to make without help. It's made me so much stronger.
Recommendations
14 Members 113 Posts
 Breakups & Divorce
My husband stopped having sex with me because he says I'm "Like a sister" to him and so sex with me "doesn't work" for him. He has, however, had a series of short term affairs, so apparently he is not gay and things work just fine with other women. We have two children together so we're trying counseling to see if we can salvage this. 
Treatments
 Couples Counseling (Too Soon To Tell)
 Reading (Not Working)
I've read a ton of books on relationships, but none of them describe my situation
 Support Groups (Somewhat Helpful)
The people at the infidelity group have been very inspirational and supportive
36 Members 1046 Posts


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