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Journal Entry for June 12, 2007 Mood
Tuesday, June 12, 2007

OH,

 This is a bad day.  She just told me she wants a divorice.  I just love this woman.  that is so hard to  say yes.  I told her it would be a fight and she could not have our dogs.  Am I wrong n doing tihis?

 

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  1. arlbears

    It is never easy and nobody said it would be. It is a journey that you have to make on your own. You have to make it yourself. People will be there to help you but you will have to fight the pain by yourself. Nothing you do during this time is wrong. You have to do what you feel you need to do to survive. We are here to help it you need it.


    arlbears

  2. slyon1

    I never thought I would walk away from my marriage - never. But then it reached a point where I believed what my wife was telling me, she no longer loved me, and she was never going to love me the way a wife should love a husband. What about the kids? I'll stay for the kids. I quickly realized that, for me, being divorced couldn't be as painful as being in a one-sided marriage. It's not enough to love her. Ask yourself what the future with this woman looks like. Maybe it's time to stop thinking about what you want, but instead think about what is best for you and your future. Whether you want to believe it or not, at this point, you do have a future. Let me know if there is anything I can do. Steve


    slyon1

  3. JTGPP

    I gave my wife every chance in the world. I am now, only dealing with what I have to for the sake of my children. I am no longer concerned about their mother (my soon to be ex) or what she's done to me. Life will move on. If she wants a divorce, you're proably past the counseling, let's work it out phase. will read your journal to see if I can find insight into what brought you here.


    JTGPP

  4. kinoka

    You can fight for your marriage and not agree until the end. Unfortunately there is no way to stop a divorce. Initially I was not going to give up on my marriage and I was going to hold on but after 6 months I realized he loved someone else and was not coming back.


    kinoka

  5. Panna

    I hope you are finding some comfort in the fact that you are not alone in all this. I'm sorry you are going through this. You can't control another person's feelings. Keep your dogs.


    Panna

  6. chimmer

    I`m really sorry to hear you are in so much pain.I don`t see where you have done anything wrong.Do you want the dogs because you love them or want to hurt her?


    chimmer

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