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Journal Entry for September 16, 2007 Mood
Sunday, September 16, 2007

Things have been going pretty well with Jason and I until Thursday. I got a call from a friend of a friend who told me the girl(my ex best friend) is pregnact.  I Immediately called my husband to tell him.  He knew nothing about it.  So Jason calls Cheri to find out. According to her Dr . baby was conceived 06/01/07  that was right around the time he and her broke things off .  She said don't worry about it. It is not yours.   Every since thursday i have had so much confusion in my head. I am stressed out. I haven't really been able to talk to Jason about this.  He was just as surprised as I was to find out about Cheri.  She said its not his...so I guess thats what i am going have to accept.  I am just scared to death that come next year jason will be served with a paternity test....If there is a child involved I don't think I can stay with my husband.  I know that sounds vain on my part. I just can't have something as a constant reminder of what i was put through this past summer.  I guess only time will tell. Cheri was very upset that jason even knew about her pregnancy, so maybe there is a pretty good chance it is cheri's husbands child....I am crossing my fingers it is cuz if not its gonna be a bumpy ride.  I don't know if I should just let it go untill i see what happens or should jason ask for a paternity test......sheesh it feels like i need to go on the maury povich show!  Anyone have any advise?

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  1. Spookykitty

    hey well, i wouldn't let it other me until the time comes (if it comes). it really doesn't pay to worry about soemthing that hasn't happened yet and it might not even happen at all....right??? good luck!!! :)


    Spookykitty

  2. arlbears

    Spooky is right. Pray that it is her husband's. If at some point in time you find out it isn't I know you will do what is best for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.


    arlbears

  3. Brightstar9

    My ex kept me in the dark about his mistress's pregnancy all along, telling me he had heard rumors that she had an abortion and had moved out of state.Always said he hadn't heard from her anymore. Well recently I found out that he was still with her all this time and was with her through out the 9 months of her pregnancy. Even when he was trying to reconcile with me. Last week he sent me a pic of himself and his son. He's about 2 months old now. Surprisingly it didn't hurt me anymore. He destroyed all trust between us. I could never love or get close to that man again. I hope the kid isn't your husbands. I'll be praying for ya.


    Brightstar9

  4. madammum

    once a cheat,always a cheat, dont you think your worth more than that???


    madammum

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