Marine Corp Ball
November 9, 2008 8:54pm
Last night I was fortunate enough to attend the Marine Corp Ball with a very dear friend of mine, Phil (aka Dr. Phil). He is one of my best …
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Wish4BigSky
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Feeling kinda grooooovy!
Recently: 36 hugs received, 32 hugs given more …
About Me
Divorced after 12 yrs. STBX left and has been living with his GF. Been on this site since the very beginning of the breakup and am doing SOOO much better. I have started dating and living again. I have always believed everything happens for a reason, but now I realize just HOW good those reasons were. I deserve someone to CHERISH me as I do them, not degrade me. I am coming into my own and looking at it as an adventure!
Interests
I love to read, write, and dance, Not only like no one's watching, but not caring if they do! LOL. I also have an interest in photography and history.
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I hate f'ing lawyers....
October 28, 2008 7:19pm
I have never been so angry in my life.......
I started a savings account on Friday for my son. Saturday I found that my bank card was …
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Not one red cent!
October 22, 2008 9:58pm
had my review today at the company I bust my ass for.
Not one MENTION of a raise - even though I am f'ing GREAT at my job, the customers …
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I’m With You
Anytime.... the helper and the helped... it's all good. Thanks.
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I like that pic better (I can see the eyes). you and Dun look good together. congrats on the HAPPY! PS Still Breathin Boss!
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"uk" is sister... I'm so happy that you're happy!!!
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ya I think maybe so.
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Ok i was referring to the one with the monkey, LOL,
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Goals
198 days smoke free. Last update May 9, 08MAD$$$$ (Dolla)12 -
Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
My marriage of 12 years is coming to an end. I have been the one who has made the home, took care of our 10 yr.old son, worked a full time job and still let the soon to be ex have his Tuesday night boys' night once a week for the last 13 yrs. I supported him in buying and building his business. I understood his being gone for business, it's just all of the "play time"....
Treatments
- Al-Anon Working / Worked
- Haven't ben a member for a long time. I don't know if the STBX is alcoholic, but I dug out my book and it helps.
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- We tried this after he cheated on me 6 yrs. ago. It didn't work at all.
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- I am trying.
- Music Working / Worked
- Depending on my mood there's a song for everything. Right now it's "Over You" by Daughtry. YES!
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- I have the support of many friends and my X's family has been great!
- Talking Working / Worked
- Wonderful people, wonderful friends! I am getting there.
Close Infidelity
My STBX cheated on me about 6 yrs. ago and, even though we attended therapy, we were unable to make it work. Recently, he left me for a skank that has been a friend for over 10 yrs. He will not admit how long they have been having an affair, but it has been going on fr quite a while.
Treatments
- Divorce Working / Worked
- We are in the process of a divorce. After the initial shock of him leaving, I have found myself growing stronger as a person and really discovering just how much BETTER I deserve.
- Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
- I am trying, but he is not making it easy!
Open Single Parenting
Recently found out about another affair the STBX has been having. We are divorcing and my son, who is 11 YO, is having a very difficult time with it all. He is SUCH a good kid. I am worried this will somehow scar him.
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