Had to talk to the stbx tonight. He is coming into town this Saturday for a whole week to stay at his mom's and spend the week with the kids. Whoopee. I have sent him a final proposal which I feel is way more than generous, and he still finds things to nitpick out of it. He also mentions he needs to get some more things out of the house. His father had given my kids some trains years ago and wants to take them for "safe keeping" I don't know why little things like that just set me off. I find it so offensive. They are his kids things not his. Am I wrong about this????? Ugh. Friday is our case management hearing and we were really trying to come to an agreement ahead of time, but now he needs to tweak it, so who knows. I am so sick of him and his big head I could scream. And of course he starts telling me if I am going to get angry with him maybe I need to go back to therapy. Of course that didn't go over well with me. I am now so angry. I hate talking to him or his evil mother. I can't wait to move and get away from her and her ability to find everything out in my life and report back to him. AAAAAAHHH.... I need to calm down and go to bed.
Try not to let your feelings get in the way of things. Look at him as a stranger and deal with him like that. Dont let him get the better of you so that you get angry. Just do your best to make him feel as distant from you (emotionally) as posible. As for the his mom "so what!" let her find out what you ahve been up to who cares as long as your not making yourself look bad then so what! its him that did the wrong not you. Just dont be on girls gone wild or anything like that :P. You are weeks if not months away from living the rest of your life the way you want to so keep that in mind and set your goals for that day when you are so far away from your inlaws that its just a faint memory.
Be strong Susie I am with you; we all are with you!
Ernie
Br0ken
omg.. you are already that far ahead. what about moving. no moving no trains. hide whatever you want over here. call me. lets go for a park day this week or a girls night any night. oh yeah definitely a girls night. my dad is better and i need OUT
justthe5ofus