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Once again I am stuck in the aftermath of "Daddys" visit. The kids are all sad he is gone for who knows how long again. Not to mention they all had questions about daddys girlfriend. My poor daughter sobbed herself to sleep saying things like"you and daddy always told me you would never get divorced""is daddy moving to atlanta to be with molly""I feel like I don't even know daddy anymore" My heart is breaking for my kids tonight.
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Okay, haven't posted in a while. Stbx here this week to watch kids for spring break. Tried to talk to him about settlement. Unfortunately, he is unwilling to 1-be 1/2 responsible for any capital repairs to house until it sells. He is unwilling to get a life insurance policy for child support amounts, he is unwilling to be solely responsible for kids health insurance until I graduate school. And, his lawyer is hiring a vocational rehabilitation specialist to investigate me and see why I am not working in addition to going to school and raising 3 kids alone. He is giving it to me from the back and now he wants to give it to me in the front as well. I am done. We are going to court. Pretrial June 9th, Trial July 22nd.
So he is here watching the kids. He comes to our garage while I am gone to get a sofa he wanted, fine, but he takes ALL the tools as well!!!!!!!! Um.. hello? I might need hammer? He says I have never used a tool in my life, so he takes them. Nice.
But, I have saved the best for last. He thought it would be a good idea to fly his whore down and introduce her to the kids. What??????????????
To say I am little upset by this would be a huge understatement. I do not get what on earth he is thinking. I am furious. Can't wait for him to leave. He should be served with my relocation papers monday. I can't wait.
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I'm so sorry Susie I feel really bad for you and your children, that has got to be extremely hard on you and your kids. I am unsure as to why he has to tell them about his girlfriend personally I think its really low of him to not think of his children's mental state through this ordeal. Early on I made that mistake but it wasn't to that degree and I quickly back tracked and made sure that it was understood that I she was only a friend and that no one could or would replace there mom.
I wished I could give you some good insight on this but I am at a loss of words because when it comes to kids both parties should protect them its not there fault that we are divorcing.
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