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Journal Entry for November 15, 2007 Mood
Thursday, November 15, 2007

I don't understand people.  I listen to their woes and bellyaches and they go on and on.  That's ok for the most part, but after all that, they turn on me for no good reason.  It seems I have to be both the listener, sounding board and the scapegoat too.  I can't do that. If I wanted someone to be my hearing board I would not beat them up after.  I may need them again. 

So then why is it that after I do a good thing I am brushed aside and treated like garbage!?!  Geez, I can't figure it out.  I have been told by other people I am too nice so maybe I should change!?!  Not really.  I am a good person and I am a great friend so why do I feel so bad when someone uses verbal abuse at me for no reason?  It hurts, it really hurts.  Damn it hurts.

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  1. bighearted1

    YOu are a good person and a #1 friend. Thanks for being the kind compassionate person you are. Big Hugs....Deb.


    bighearted1

  2. joy2go

    I believe people in general just have bad and good days! Its like the person that got chewed out at work and comes home and chews out the dog, the spouse, the kids and so on when reality they just needed to vent. And yes it does hurt when we have been bruised emotionally. Be blessed my friend!


    joy2go

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