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I was reading posts in one of the communities I belong to and found some disturbing info. It seems some people are being attacked and called liars and so forth. They may not have been referring to me but I was called a liar and a pity case by members who either read my posts and didn't like what they read or just have nothing better to do. The offender didn't say this in a post reply but sent to my personal message inbox. Wow what a coward!?!
I guess this person was afraid of being confronted or something so if she or he had to send a private message then it would be my word against theirs. Wow! Being called a liar is a form of abuse. Abuse is a complex problem and comes in so many ways. This is something we do not need to do, abuse each other.
I mean come on people we are here for sharing our own experiences of vile and dispicable abuse issues. We certainly do not need it here. If I had a difficult experience, it happend. It is true. I did not make it up for some desperate bid for attention. I don't need to do that. I have been told the experience is not really abuse but more a misunderstanding. Now look here, if someone had gotten away and made a good life for themselves then great. I am proud of her or him. That doesn't mean my abuse didn't happen and that I am confused as to what abuse really is. Believe me I KNOW abuse as well as the next person.
Some members seem to think they are victories while the rest of us are victims or whatever. I am strong and just because I share my experiences doesn't mean I am a victim and don't know any better. Abuse comes in so many different ways. In fact one member treated me in a condescending and patronizing way. I told her my experiences were exactly as I said they were. Not my fault someone can't handle the truth. Makes me sick. I don't argue with people I just vent my frustrations in my journal, and reply to posts with a supportive attitude.
That's me, the real me, supportive, caring and honest. Don't believe me!?! Ask my friends!?!
Thanks Karasal
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Hi Karasal, wow I am really suprised this happened to you! I was reading through some discussion boards last night and I did see some post in that same manner - very disbelieving. Trusting person that I am, I never really thought anyone was not telling the truth, it never occurred to me! Anyway, you have been a wonderful and supportive friend to me and I really appreciate you.
P00hbear
I'm so sorry to read of your experience. You have been one of the most caring members of that community. It should never have happened. Frisky! please come home! :-D
simgrah
This is terrible what has happen to you. I just want to give you a very huge hug. Never change for your wonderful just as you are. Gloria
Glot
So sorry for what happened to you. Just can't understand why people choose to hurt others, especially in a very supportive and wonderful community as DS. I've read in other communities here that there are specific people who come in to just "upset" the apple cart .. just hope you realize how wonderful and special you are to us here ... :)
missnewf
Its too bad this happened to you. Thier are way to many judgemental people out there. I guess it makes them feel better if they get you to join in on their misery even if they boast they are survivors. Truth is, no one would be here if they didn't either want to, or need to. Victums can be the best abusers, ignore them. When you let it bother you, then they get a an ego boost.
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