
well im bak again still feeling like a huge dissapointment. and when i get peoples comments going over n over again in my head i feel worse than ever, im getting married in august and my partners sister has not bin asked to be bridesmaid and because she hasnt shes said that her self and other people are saying shes not bin asked because she would look better than me iv nver let any body affect me what ever they've said but this time its really hurt n i mean hurt it gose threw my head every min of the day n i carnt get rid of it, its all i need on top of the rest of the stress you get with weddings. what am i suposed to do its mking me dread the day coming help me someone.xxxxx
Do you want her to be in the wedding? If not, let it go, it is your day! When I got married the second time, I did not have anyone stand up with us, just me and my husband, easier that way! I fussed about my weight as well, I was the heaviest I ever was at my wedding, I had other things going on and could not get the weight off. I tell you though, the look in my husbands eyes was all I needed to see, we had the best wedding ever! You have to enjoy the day and stop stressing....Weddings are to celebrate and have fun, if something goes wrong, so what!!!! You are there with the man you love and family and friends, you should be having a good time, not worring about everything being perfect! Heck, the top of our cake fell off!!!! LOL....no big deal there was plenty of cake to go around and I did not even know till later we were dancing around! Good luck, and try to enjoy the planning, make it simple......
Lilliebird