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ok well let me start about why i joined this group. i lost my mom 3 years ago . and it seems to get harder than easy. i lost her on dec 6 2003 in a car wreck my step father lived he was the one driving while drunk nothing has happened to him. his mother steped in and i was not allowed to see him at the hospital while he was in a coma and . his mother called the cops on me when i went to there house to get something to give the furnel home for my mother to wear. i was not allowed to go through anything of my moms. the only thing i got was her jewerly and that was because i took the whole box because there house was never locked i got that in the same day i got something for here to wear. i miss her so much . i want to know if anyone else went through this. to this day i don;t know what happend to my mothers things . someone told me that there were burned . that is not fair to me. the last two days all i have done is cry . i think i always thoght she was coming back for some reason and now i just feel like i have lost her all over again. and to make matters wrost my stepfather got her insuance money and did pay for the furnel so my mom is still there i guess unless they thew her ashes a way. iam just still hurting a lot.
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So sorry for your loss Ginger, I too have a recent loss of my Mother this past May. She died suddenly of a brain anuerism. I am a lot older than you and I still am filled with a lot of hurt and pain. Everyone says I will feel better with time, it is just she was my best friend and I miss her a lot. I think when they are taken suddenly like both our Mothers were, it is twice as hard for the ones left behind.
As far as your Mothers things...you know it wasnt right for anyone to dispose of them, but if they are gone, they are gone...and only material objects. Be glad you retrieved her jewelry. You will keep her memory in your heart and no one can ever get rid of that. Hang in there and try to think of the good things you shared with her this holiday season. I am trying to do that too, even though it is very emotional. We will make it!!
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