hi Thanks to all of you for all your messages today i went to the ent clinic went okay had ears syringed out very nice but he did say that the infection had gone i am so pleased and havent got to have those nasty drops in. He did say that i could go back at anytime pleased that there is always someone there for us. Another lady came form social services it is so hard to take everything in but we know that there is someone is there for us. Hopefully we can get on with life it is hard to deal with everything and you never know what is round the corner. I thank everyone who has sent me hugs and pryaers and count my blessings that there are people out there who care.