Feeling Hopeless
May 21, 2008 4:00pm
It has been a long time since I have written.
My affair has been over for well over a year and I want nothing more that to move on with my life …
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GinaF
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About Me
40 yr old Account Mgr for an insurance firm in Houston, TX. Married 21 yrs. Proud mother of 2 children. My daughter is pre-med and my son is a senior in high school. Own 3 homes - prefer our beach house in Galveston, TX. If I could live on a boat and/or go fishing everyday I would. I love to watch my children succeed, how they laugh not only out loud but also with their eyes, how they love life and most of all care for one another.
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I love all outdoor activities. Especially our house on the coast. I love off shore fishing/boating with my family.
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Journal Entry for January 3, 2008
January 3, 2008 7:12pm
HB came home from work and of course the first thing he mentions is the affair.... all the same questions - how - why... so many questions without …
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Journal Entry for January 3, 2008
January 3, 2008 5:45pm
Christmas was wonderful as always - with just a few bumps... Of course my HB couldn't help but remind mr of the pain I have put my family …
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Journal Entry for December 9, 2007
December 9, 2007 12:22pm
It's been a difficult morning.... most mornings are difficult.
I received one message from someone stating that the profile I wrote seemed as if I …
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Merry Christmas. Hope you find peace this holiday season.
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Hope you are doing well. God bless you.
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hi, I hope things get better for u...
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Hope you both can get past this, for really you seem to both love one another. Sometimes we do make mistakes in our lives and sometimes they are very hard to overcome but it can be done. I don't know why in our society, but a man finds it very hard to deal with this type of problem then do some women even though it is just as equally tough either way. I wish you both the best and hope that someway you both can come to some sort of resolve and get your lifes back on track.
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Close Infidelity
I have been married for 21 years. I had an affair with a coworker that was on/off for 18 months. My husband found out about the affair through a letter that was not only mailed to him at our home address but to ever neighbor on my street.This was 9 months ago. My husband and I are still together trying to work things out as neither of us want a divorce. However; every day is a challenge for the two of us.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- It's difficult to say. I do not want to continue discussing issues that I feel have already been discussed and answered; however my husband keeps bringing up the same issues so I feel as if we are getting no where.
- Leave Somewhat Helpful
- I spent most of my summer at our house on the coast away from my family. We missed each other terribly however; when we saw one another he would get so angry, start asking the same questions over and over and it always ended up with me putting walls up between us and getting no where. It showed us that we didn't want to be apart and that we knew we needed to find a way to work this out.... which we have not.
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