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aloneagain
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I am the biggest idiot I know! Yay!
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About Me
I am a social worker who is going thru a never ending Pennsylvania divorce from hell. If you are offended by swearing or under the age of 18, you should probably move on to someone elses profile... bc this divorce and/or anything related to it, makes me swear like a trucker.
Interests
shopping(Not anymore!), gardening, playing with my niece, spending time with family, improving my home, renting videos, hiking/swimming/skiiing/ horsebackriding and enjoying the great outdoors!.
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Hey there!!! Been here, running around.My best friend is leaving today after being here since June 12th.My gosh it has me sad!She will be back on July 30th, because I have a dr.appointment down where she lives.Then from there we are taking the kids, ALL 6 kids to Six Flags! They are soooo excited.How the heck are ya?????? :)
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Sorry its been so long Gretchen....hope alls well...ill catch up with you later...much love thomas
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Just sending you so much needed hugs today! Thinking about you and love reading your journals...it keeps my mind off of my own shit! LOVE U
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i sent you a message...
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hell yeah i know! well just got some more bad news but might be able to work around it... i cut off the other dude and am seeing someone else (my about to be roommate). i have tons to tell you!!! love you.
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Close Depression
no diagnosis I think more environmental than biological.
Treatments
- Lexapro Working / Worked
- Really helped me get thru the rough spots of divorce but when I went off of it suffered major withdrawal syptoms. 5 months after not taking it back to square 1.
- Pets Working / Worked
- Total unconditional love.
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- Try to shift my train of thought. It works if you make yourself conscious of your negative thinking.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Nothing better than my friends and family. I am so blessed to have them. My Mom, Dad, sisters, best girl friends and my wonderful boyfriend have seen me thru!
- Writing Working / Worked
- Love to purge it onto paper.
Close Breakups & Divorce
Spouse emotionally abandoned me. Then cheated on me for 2 out of the 3 years of our marriage. Gambled on the cruise ship during our honeymoon instead of spending any time with me. Was a wonderful man and provider right up until we said our "I do's."
Treatments
- Leave Working / Worked
- Pets Working / Worked
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- Mostly at this point the concensus is to get over it.
Open Financial Challenges
Husband cheated and then somehow managed to leave me with nothing but a crapload of debt. I am currently receiving about 30 calls a day from creditors. The few times I have spoken to them to explain my situation they either yell at me or degrade me. I have gone rounds with these idiots. I am afraid to do anything for fear I'll do the wrong thing and make it worse.
Treatments
- Crying Not Working
Open Rape
I am surprised I am joining this community. This is one of those hurts that I feel is better left untapped. I was drugged and raped in college. I still have nightmares but for the most part I try not to go there in my mind. I still hate the man who raped me so much it scares me.
Open Anger Management
Okay... so the world keeps kicking me in the teeth. I feel like it's time to kick back. I want to punch something sometimes and this is very outside of my usual character. My heart is full of hate.
Open Infidelity
Husband was a lying cheat. That pretty much says it all.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Cowards don't want to admit they are wrong and typically refuse counseling.
- Divorce Working / Worked
- Best 3 grand I ever spent!
- Forgiveness Not Working
- Are you kidding me. The knife of infidelity cuts too deeply in my humble opinion.
- Leave Working / Worked
- Happiest day of my life and I didn't even know it at the time.
Open Healthy Relationships
Both my current BF and I are recently seperated from our spouses. We were both cheated on in our marriages. We have such jealously issues that I am almost embarassed to discuss it. It is so hard to trust someone after what we've been thru but at the same time... we at least understand why we are so messed up!
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