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i think i've been in denial for a long time, possibly years. it's only just as i had my daughter 9 months ago …
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Today wuz much like yesterday, my husband still does not want to talk, so tomorrow, I am going 2 start my apartment hunt. I informed my daughter that we would be moving, and she asked me wuz her daddy coming also, I told her he would come later(that might be a lie).
My diet has been going okay today, I am on weight watchers now, I like it becuse U can eat all day just as long as U do not use all of ur points, and its working.
Every summer my step son comes , and causes conflict in our household, he is ten. I know this is bad 2 say about a child, but I do not like him one damn bit. Oh and my husband, I don't know what type of shit this is, he took his son bowling, and did not take my daughter, now my daughter is acting out because she feels like she needs to compete 4 her dad's attention. U won't believe this; my step son , and my husband r in the same bed together sleep.
I mean my husband is just completley ignoring the rest of us. My step son thinks that he can talk to me any kind of way, he is completley disrespectful, and my husband does not say a word. He is a little ingrate ,just like his dad. This is what really pissed me off, when my husband and his son made it back from Kansas City (where his son lives) my husband walked in the door and my 6 month old went crazy saying di di di di......., and just jumping, and my husband just went out the back door completley ignoring him, my baby just cried. Maybe tommorrow will be better hopefully. I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me.
2 my friens xspecially 2 particular friends, they know who they r. I really appreciate everything, thanx 4 the much needed advice, and encouraging words. May GOG bless u everyday.
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Hey friend. How old is your daughter? I'm a child of divorce (which I think I mentioned; so forgive me if I have). I am so glad that you have the strength to get out. I hope you have some family to help you through, because you're going to need it. Lord knows my aunt was my second mother when I was growing up. I know that you know how to be a mother, but please make sure you reassure your daughter that you love her and will always be there for her.
As far as the son, and as hard as this will be, treat him no different, even when you move out. That shows everyone (including your daughter) that you are being an adult. IT will also show (if a custody dispute arises) that you had the child's best interest in mind.
Much love my sister in Christ. God bless you.
mcintoshapple
I agree with mcintoshapple..It will show the courts that you are not a bad person and who's at fault here.You shouldn't have to put up with a disrespectful child like that...My sister's husband has 3 other child outside of these that he has here (he had them before they were married) and when he was alive if one of those children wanted to disrespect my sister he would fly off the handle..He wasn't having it and your husband should have been the same way...You are and adult and his son needs to recognize that but he never will until his father tells him that..
Good luck sweetie and I will be thinking of you always,
Janeather
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