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Finding out the truth / abusive parents Mood
Monday, June 9, 2008 | A Painful story

 

 

 

I have just come to understand the extremes my parents have gone to - trying to hide their secrets about the abuse, neglect, and lies that have been told over my lifetime. I'm 40 and have known for yrs that I was abused, but I am dumbfounded by what I have uncovered in the last few weeks!! It hurts to know that your parents have caused so much unhappiness!!

My sister and I have been discussing the fact that my father/ mother have been telling lies to the family and extended family about us!!! Also, they were spreading this to people in their church as well... and anyone else who would listen to their stories.

I'm very upset and hurt beyond words to finally be able to validate what I have suspected for yrs!! I would be more specific, but I am too upset and exhausted to write any more. Please remember me in your prayers!!

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  1. P00hbear

    Hi my friend! Oh nooooo! I am so sorry you are having to go through this, but it sounds as if your sister is supportive so I hope that helps some - I don't have any siblings so I have to deal with my parents on my own. I learned a lot about them recently too, when my Aunt stayed there she finally understood what I went through my entire life living with my mom. There's a lot of weird skeletons in the closet, stuff we are not supposed to talk about, etc. We will both get through this, and I hope you are doing ok. Write more or PM me when you can...


    P00hbear

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