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Is it just me cause I don't get it. I was have a discussion about things that haunt me most about the past are bad memories and I did not think I could erase them enough to go on with him. He does not know all this planned and he won't know. However his answer to me was this.
You know that club that has been on the news the club they closed down because of it being so fealty and disgusting and I said yes. He said I have been in there before. I have to live with that memory.
Ok first I did not know about the club that was a new one, 2 the memories that are haunting me and his memories of being in that club so not even need to be in the same ball park.
My question is this just how much stuff is there that I don't know about?
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NanaO
What you said really hit home. NanaO is probably right, there's probably other things you don't know but I'm just saying this out of my own experience. I wish there was something I could say to make this lighter on your heart and take away the worries.Although it hurts, at least he is opening up to you, I wish mine would. Lots of hugs & love.
pattimac
Now that your close to gone and this part of your life, not with your son, him is coming to the end. You already have moved on. Why torture yourself with details; that will lead to more fights. Just pretend and be gone. Just be gone because he is not safe for you or anything you love.
listless
You are so close to leaving. This only puts the icing on the cake. He probably has not told you alot of things but why put yourself through that torture. You know in your heart you have to go and you will know when the time is right. Be careful girlfriend and don't start to trust him. That would be a mistake. Take care of yourself Laurie
jasmine0523
once you leave when you are ready and start healing hopefully those memories will faded away and be filled with happy memories,less stress and lots of happiness to come
hugssssssssss
gerri
gjones
oh I forgot to say,your husband is telling you this stuff knowing that it hurts you,he just wants to break you down,just be strong and ignore him
hugssssssss
gerri
gjones
I agree with everyone else, he hasnt told you everything and he is saying things to you now just to hurt you. Try your best to just ignore him, know he is trying to hurt you, try to let it roll off of you and yes, I know all of that is easy for me to say. There have been alot of us in abusive situations. We love you care about you and we just dont want you to get hurt sweetie. Love and Hugs......Julie
indygal
I feel your pain hun.. it seems I learn more that I really didn't want to.. everyday. Meanwhile, there are just enough blanks left that I have to fill them in myself. Hang in there hun! ((HUGS))
need2stphurtin
i believe when a man starts "telling the truth",about what he's been doing,it's just to make him look big,and you look small,don't fall for it.let him be someone elses problem. don't play his game.
hugs,and God Bless.
cajunv2001