Weekend in the hospital...
Well, I spent my weekend in the hospital. Went to the ER friday afternoon with a red swollen right arm. They said …
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we n eed a frustrated my life is sucking right now icon. I had to take my mom to the doctor today and he admitted her to the hospital would not even let me take her home long enough to get some clothes. I am gathering up her stuff and going back there and trying to get my dad there who has dymencia sp? She either has raging celliuitis or a clot. So please pray for her. Pray for me t hat i have patience with them both. I was abused as a child and I battle with the way I feel about them all t he time. I should take care of them their my parents. However they are also the ones who told me I would never amount to anything and I have never heard t hem say I am proud of you for anything.
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that is a horrible situation to be in. I don't think I could do what your are for them. Well...I'm not. I think what your doing is admirable. I couldn't it was killing me. I gave my parents 31 yrs. thats enough for those babes. You will be in my prayers luv J
listless
your family will be on my prayer list..........debbie
dkpape
listless_ it is hard, but I tell myself I made mistakes with my son. Especially between 2-4 years old he remembers none of it thank God. I must have done enough good to out way the bad I done. I just have to pray for God to give me strength because kids don't come with manuals on how to take care of them.
brokenbody
listless_ it is hard, but I tell myself I made mistakes with my son. Especially between 2-4 years old he remembers none of it thank God. I must have done enough good to out way the bad I done. I just have to pray for God to give me strength because kids don't come with manuals on how to take care of them.
brokenbody
Hey Broken, I know the situation you are in right now isnt easy for you and you and your family will be in my prayers. I have been there with my dad telling me I would never amount to anything, Im a disgrace to the family etc etc. But when my mom had cancer, I went to the hospital everyday from 8a-6p to take care of her and it was hard. Moon not supporting me and dad coming there watching every move I made. When all was said and done, my dad went on and on how I was the one who really cared for mom. Course not to my face, but knowing he said it, and my mom thanking me many times, it ended up being worth it all. Hang in there. ((((((((( Hugs))))))))) Julie
indygal
thoughts and prayers for you and your mother hope things work out
girl I have never heard any good things from my mothers mouth at any time of my life. so hang in there
hugsssssssssss
gerri
gjones
I am praying for you with your parents. There are no shoulds. If they become to much, step away and they will have to get long term care. Don't give up the peaceful life you are working for and try to be more for them than is possible. I admire your loyalty. God Bless.
LoriWantsHealing
Parent's insome way when growing up embrass or insult you. I think it is part of parenthood and we don't know what we have done until years later. Yes part of you want's to ignore them but then down deep they did love you and cared about you. You have amounted to a loving caring parent and soon to be ex-wife with courage. The other side is your parents maybe suffering so now because of the bad that they did when you were a child. Remember someday to go back to a place when you were all laughing and having a good time. Try to work on forgiving the bad that they did to you as a child. I will pray for your entire family in this time of change. Hangin there maybe there will be peace within you someday. Marg
highmarg
I appreciate your invitation to be your friend. So anytime you need me, I'm here. I will be praying for you and your family and put you on my prayer list. God will bless you abundantly for the things that you are doing that must be so painful.
pattimac
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I was told my whole life I wouldn't amount to anything. I was verbally abused by my Momma, totally ignored by my Daddy. All I ever wanted was their love. Finally got my Momma to see I was just a person who wanted her to love me. I am very glad of that. The abuse I suffered as a child is horrible. All I ever wanted to do was run away. When I turned 19 I moved out: all the way to Florida from Indiana.
Honey you need a good hug from some one who has been where you are. Look in the Classified and see if there is a support group for abused children. It doesn't always have to be sexual abuse either. There are all kinds of abuse: Sexual, verbal, emotional, neglect. You name it and there's a support group for it. If there's not a group; start one. How great would that be? You would be the one to actually start a group that would not only help others but yourself as well. If you have no place to meet start at a local restaurant. See how many people show up then find a motel with a conference room that could donate the room for a hour or two once a week. The motel could write off the room as a donation and your support group would have a place to meet.
I love you sister. You hang in there.
Everything will be o.k.
Sometimes WE have to take the first step.
Let me know how it goes.
love your DS friend
gretchenk
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