snyder30's Journal

wow it feels like it was just last month we where all doing christmas..well its a new month and bills have to be paid taxes have to be done and we are so looking forward to this summer..Spring break is comeing up..I am sure we are all wondering what we are so going to do to keep these guys busy and ready to go back to school in about a week or so..I am going to practice on writing with sabo and ally..Sabo is starting to write by himself letters and numbers..Ii am so happy..I just want it to be a fun thing..I need to make this letter writing fun or he will so not do it..ally on the other hand likes to do whatever big brother is doing so she will be there with us trying to write..my son has the whole abc's down..he knows each one and knows the sounds they make..this is the first sign of time to get reading..wish me luck..hubby is working hard on helping me more..I always tell myself he didnt have a dad and mom was a drunk who left him where-ever so she could go party..we are learning togthere how to be better parents and partners..my mother in law is starting to get in the habit of leaveing my nephew Justin here with us every friday..which isnt bad my son ask for him by name ever friday and sunday..sunday is grandma day..only bad thing is that my mother in law is getting back into going out to much and leaveing justin just about anywhere..hurts me..last night he was here with us and left today at one and she left him at a friends at two..she spent one hour with him..I feel for this kid...My hubby and me where suppose to have him with us right now but she butted in and took him from under us..are hands where tied at that moment so we let it go..so much has happen to him since then that I would not know how to handle this poor kid now..rapped at the apt's he use to live in by the sitters son..spanked black and blue by his aunt and uncle in fl..mind you my husbands real sister and brother in law did this to this poor kid..and on top of that he is adhd..on meds to cope with his daily hyperness and meds to sleep..still love the kid like crazy but he needs so much more then we can give him at this time..my daughter is on me so I will write later