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Now stbx says that he only wants to give me half the house but not the half of the rrsp. Boy he is giving …
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I should know better to ever even hint that things are going better as it just seems to go to hell in a hand basket every time I start to think that way. A few weeks a go the stbx calls and says if she files bankruptsy again would I be willing to pay half the costs. I said so long as it is part of the settlement sure thing, why not. Now my rule about talking to her is, I don't because it always bullshit and lies. Well Friday I get a letter from her asshole lawyer saying that she wants me to pay half her debt. No big surprise but it still pissed me off. The letter also made other demands. I spoke with my lawyer Friday and as he has said all along, we are going to trial in May. He said I am going to be OK as far as the house goes but I was not feeling great for the rest of the weekend. Yesterday I spent on my own which is becoming the norm for holidays, so not really a big deal, I am going to be so glad when this is over. I am going to be totally pilliaged but I will be glad when I finally know where I stand. Life sucks right now but it will get better just got to wait for the roller coaster to start going up hill again.
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mine went to trial, Hang in there... don't even talk to her anymore, she could be recording you saying that you will pay for something, I would just have the attorneys talk... this will get nasty before it gets better and your better off with the judge... (pay her debts) what does she think? she is toxic stay clear from her.... good luck wick my fingers are crossed for you..
tana
yeah- I hear ya... going down that same road too... shit just seems to keep happening, and it gets harder and harder to avoid it doens'nt it? hang in there and pray for relief... that is all you can do!
momto4
Damn rollercoaster ride never seems to stop when you are going through a divorce. Just when you are feeling better, something happens and it brings you down again. As far as paying her debts...no way can they make you do that. Don't let what she says upset you...it's all bs. Let your attorney fight your battle for you. I hope that this is over for you soon!
nicegal1
I can't really add much to what your friends have said other than I am here for you and also on a damn rollercoaster. Sorry life is sucking right now. It won't always be this way. -- Dani
happy1day
I know this might not help, and I am not one to talk in my current situation, BUT: It could be worse! We are only human after all:)
Hang in there.
diemjs
just make sure your fastened in and the harness is in place to keep you in the car... way to go, you don't know it, but there's serious strength in your writing, really.
JTGPP
I'm sure lucky that we're not going to court.
patti22
Just to get it over with already. You are right she is a liar, guess she thinks that she should never have to stand on her own feet. I feel for you buddy, this is ridiculous.
solongbye
I know what you mean wick. My lawyer is trying to get my stbx and his attorney to honor our original agreement. If he doesn't.. court again.
yay!
Hang in there, wick.
Saracooks
Wick I promise and I have been there as you know, one day you will get off this roller coaster and you will be on the Merry Go Round, hang in there, it will end. You have all my love and support always. HUGS
ladylinda