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Ok just to bring you up to date the flake my stbx did not show for our meeting. My liar told me I can expect to go to …
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I can't believe this, stbx and has all kinds of time on her hands. Stbxs liar calls my liar to see if they can get a phone number for stbx because they can't get a hold of her. What kind of Micky Mouse law firm did stbx and her blond is definitly showing as she must not have given them her new cell number. I give them mil number as I can not find her new number. So then I call sil to find out wtf is going on. Sil tells me that she talked to her sister yesterday and she knew about the meeting. Mean while I get another call from my liar says the law office of dumb ass has decided to cancel the meeting as there client is not prepared. So I took a day of been apprehensive about this thing and the stbx side is flaking all over the place. Got some good news I got the garnishment mess straightened out so that should be getting taken care off as I write this. This is never going to end it just going to go on and on aaaaaagggggghhhhhhh. I want to put my fist through a wall again, this whole process is so frustrating, a lot of hurry up and wait. Bringing on the Heartache seems to be my theme tune, Def Lepard, look it up. This is one of those times when wish I had a hand to hold and a shoulder to lay my head on. Read an article this moring about how stress can shorten your life span, duhhh. They said one of the leading causes was a bad marriage, I guess I should put the cardio unit on my speed dial. As it stands right now I am still going to meet with my liar so we can at least tallk about what I want to happen and we will be ready should they ever get there act together, I am not holding my breath. I just want this to be done and over with out getting completely reamed.
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I'm sorry things are so hard for you at the moment, i am thinking of you and praying for you to find peace and happiness again, it will come to you one day, sometimes these things just take so much time and energy, stay strong xxxxx
blueskye
Ugh. That's genuine BS. I would punch a wall with you but... I just painted my nails?
Please don't have a heart attack, Magnet. You're the cogs in our dysfunctional support community. We need ya moderately sane and healthy, 'k?
Believe07
They are all liars aren't they? It's so frustrating but it will get better..Def Lepard huh? Great group!
nicegal1
Hey honey, this really is good news for you, I know it is frustrating, but it sounds as if her lawyer has not been given the info he needs, or her demands are so ridulious, that he has not convienced her of it. I speak from experience. This is a check mark for your side, I know this waiting is killing you, but think of it as a score for your side. You are getting to her, whether you realize it or not.
MaryC2
Oh boy, been there done that! There is nothing worse than being in legal limbo land. Drink your cup of patience every morning and hope it gets you through the day. Take my word for it, it will end eventually! I believe your words "This is never going to end it is just going to go on and on aaaaaagggggghhhhh" Were taken word for word from one of my journals! Hang in there Wick. The journal is a great place to vent!
Jlhorlando
Good luck to you on getting something, anything resolved, lol.
kokie
Hang in there my Wicked fiend. You have a lot of friends who are hanging with you. Big hug. :)
BeckyW
I know that I am praying for you. I remember when I went through my divorce. The waiting was the worst part and then one day out of the blue it was over. I agree with MaryC2. This is a score for your side but I know the frustration you are feeling. Hang in there.
brokenhearted
Wick, that's an awesome song by the way. Was a fav. band of mine, and I guess still is, but the "ex" as I now can call her, likes them too, which makes me not so much. You guys need to find a way out of this mess. Your atty. should be able to at least get you divorced and handle the money part later can't they? This is absurd.
JTGPP