What a good day! I found out that …
What a good day! I found out that the only thing wrong with my car was a radiator cap...So insted of being 744 bucks …
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So I heard from my ex the other day, she wanted to see if she could come by this weekend and start picking up some stuff. We talked about why this had to be this way and she told me that she was not good for me and that she did not want to hurt me any more. I told her it did not have to go this way, it could have been a lot easier. She took the blame and said I did not do any thing wrong. I felt sad for her as her life has not been easy. The problem is, she has always made things harder then they have to be. She said we had to get divorced so she could file bankruptcy and get past all her newly aquired debt with out dragging me into it. I take all of this with a pinch of salt as I still don't believe any thing she says. She told me she thinks about me every day but she didn't say in what way. I hope she does not think we are getting back together because that will never, ever happen. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life then go back to that.
Got my car back today, $2600 for a rebuilt tranny and a new radiator, ugh. Have not paid any thing to do with the divorce yet and I am already bleeding money like there is no tomorrow. Paid for the rental today too. The price of freedom is an expensive one.
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Good for you, gee to hear someone admit they were in the wrong, must of felt slightly empowering. Sorry about, the car problems, needed that like a hole in the head.
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Boy...I really understand when you say you don;t believe a word your ex says. She kinda sounds like my husband. It's only been 3 months since he's said he wants to end our marriage. He also takes all blame and says I didn't do anything wrong and he wasn't unhappy in our marriage. Huh?
Yes..the price of freedom is indeed hefty. :-(
TanyaP
I can totally understand too I can always tell when my ex is lying it happens whenever his lips are moving. At least you are free and hopefully you can forgive her so you can move on with your life and not harbor or foster hate and resentment towards her because she is not worth it.
smaguire
real freedom however is priceless =) ((((HUGS))))
JoeysGirl73
Yes the price of freedom is expensive but it's so worth it!
nicegal1
That money thing seems to get harder and harder each time. I know on my end I work as much as I can when my kids are gone. I know someday it will get better for all of us. Hang in there.
kinoka
hey, we spent almost the same amount today...
well, almost but who the eff is counting.. let the bleeding continue.
and the ex, bleh, dont have those yucky convo's. tell her, her shat's in the garage and call it a day. buh bye biotch!
JTGPP
Yeah as hard as I tried to make it work, I would NEVER EVER GO BACK.
It's all justifications on their part anyway. And truth has very very little to do with it.
patti22
Too bad her admittance came a day late and many dollars short. It's hard to accept it when it has gone on for so long.
solongbye
so glad you have your wheels back.. enjoy
mycherub
good for you my friend.sounds like shes patronising you.keep your guard up.dont feel to sorry for her.she l survive.
Dbbiepeggy